ok...so i just got asked out 4 days ago. i went to the movies last night wit him and i luv him so much we flirted the whole entire time and at the end he kept pinching my sides...<333..anyway... he wants to hook up with me(make out with me) and i really like him but i don't want to do that yet... i just got asked out 4 days ago!!!! All my friends told me he was just a player but i still want to go out with him and i kinda want to hook up with him but i feel like im not ready. I do but i don't !!! what would u do or say to him if he just grapped u away and started hooking up with u!??!?!
2006-11-09 08:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by calientaXOchica<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything (I mean ANYTHING) that you don't WANT to do. Who cares what he wants, or what others think or want. Do what you want to do.
2006-11-09 08:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would I do? Push him off of me and tell no way, too early. If that is all he is after then keep looking. He is not worth your time. Do not let any man pressure you into sex. 4 days is a little early to be hooking up, wouldn't you agree? Take your time and don't fall for his line. Find out if he really is a player. Good luck and don't give in!
2006-11-09 16:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone after just one date, you mean you like him, you don't know if he is only after one thing or even if he cares whether you have feelings for you or not.
You don't give yourself up that easily, and by your deminour, you send him that message, that you are someone you respect, and don't expect to jump in the sack with otherwise how will he respect you.
He will think you are easy and act this way with every boy that comes along, if you do then you are and go for it but that really isn't cool at all and will have hardship after hardship. Boys like to play but they will seldom settle for the one they learned how to play the game with if you know what I mean, they will look for a nice respectable girl even if they don't deserve one, that's what they look for.
Hands off the property,honey is a good line to cool him off and don't wait until he is too hot to stop, it is still called date rape, but he should know that you have no intentions of putting out just because he is going out with you then he won't expect it.
2006-11-09 16:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your own judgment.....and be careful...and remember no means no....
Go on dates where there is a lot of people and just let him know you like him but not like that yet.....
If he dumps you then you'll know what he really wanted in the first place...
good luck
2006-11-09 16:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not what hooking up means...
2006-11-09 16:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by snoboarder2k6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how I feel. You can't do sumthin you don't want to!!!
2006-11-09 16:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to respect u...!
2006-11-09 16:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by az a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋