My boyfriend and i want to spice up our sex life what are some things we aould try, (without using any toys, becides whips and handcuffs),( we do like kinky so get creative)???
thanks
2006-11-09 08:16:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only tell you my boyfriend's favorite position: we call it Inverted Oral Sex (IOS). He lays down on his stomach, and I start by rubbing him all over with oil. I slowly work up to a BJ while he's still on his stomach (he has to raise his hips for easier access), paying lip/tongue service to everything I can reach. He LOVES it - and, if it weren't for the crick I sometimes get in my neck from the angle, I'd do this for him every day.
I've never bought a book. We just do what feels good: sometimes it's with him standing at the foot of the bed, sometimes it's sideways with my ankle over his shoulder, sometimes it's me standing on the sides of the bathtub, hands on the ceiling for balance. It's all good...
You just have to let go of your inhibitions, enjoy & trust each other completely. If you can do that, you can't go wrong.
2006-11-09 08:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once went for a long walk with a girlfriend in the middle of the night. We were walking and talking and the world was quiet and dark and peaceful. We stopped at a playground, which was dark and empty in the middle of the night, and we sat on two swings and talked. It got sexy and over the course of the next couple hours, we had sex on every piece of playground equipment the park had to offer. We did is on a swing, we did it on a rope ladder, we did it in a long, plastic tube, and we did it on the bridge of the playground jungle gym.
Try it. Have fun! Just make sure you do not get arrested!!!
2006-11-09 16:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need latex catsuits, gloves, hoods and boots. If you can't have fun wearing this stuff, there is something wrong. You allready have the whips and handcuffs so you will have a blast. Have fun!!
2006-11-09 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by hotblack_b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my GF and I went through the same thing until we tried some new things like adding different nights to out schedule example: all oral sex night, porn night, wild positon night, and anytings goes night. We also said we were going to open minded about sex between us. If we wanted to try something just ask, I am a boob man so I asked her to let me tityf--k her and c-m on them, she feel in love with it and loves the feeling of hot wet c-m on her boobs. she loves to c-m on my face as I go down on her and I do the same. so I hope this helps...
2006-11-09 16:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Theres a ton of books you can get that will teach you thousands of positions. You may also be able to find it online.
2006-11-09 16:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by filotofo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about talking to eachother like your not having sex at the time, like pretend your just talking on the street, but be having sex at the same time...i just thought of that, ive never done it but you should try!
2006-11-09 16:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kewl
Take turns pleasuring each other withput touching like hands and then once you cant take it no more, then pound it
2006-11-09 16:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a three sum but tie the third party up and you two have fun torcheren that lucky person
2006-11-09 16:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left hand red, right hand blue, left leg green and left leg yellow.
2006-11-09 16:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kama sutra. look online for this book, it like 20 bucks and completely worth it.
2006-11-09 16:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by geoffzaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋