If a girl gives you her phone number, when should you call, and what should you say?

Question

Do you make plans to do something, if so, then what?

Answer 1

#1-wait at least 2 days before calling. This gets her interest in you increased and makes you seem less needy.
#2-when you call keep it brief. Say hi, try to say something funny to make her laugh.
#3-while on your BRIEF phone call, tell her "lets get together for coffee on ******. (Don't ask her where she wants to go, don't ask her what day is good for her. You make the plans first.) If she says she's busy, say "well, I have time on **** at ***** (you want to make it seem like you have a life and have a schedule) and if she rejects this say something like "what are you, an air traffic controler?" Usually at this point, she'll tell you when she's free. If not, now's an ok time to ask her when she's got time (but say it kind of care free, don't act offended).

Don't call her just for the hell of it. You want to come off as attractive and that you have a life, not needy!

Answer 2

depends on the circumstances.

People will tell you to wait 2-3 days, because they are afraid they will look desperate, that is a load of bs.

If you do that then it shows a girl you are either a) insecure that you have to follow a "rule of guys" and she will be more guarded or b) are playing games and she will be more guarded, if she even talks to you.

If you are desperate she can tell, chances are she wouldn't have given her phone number to you in the first place if you came across as such. Calling the next day (if it is logical) and keeping the conversation short (unless she is really laid back and the conversation totally flows) is the best way to go.

Depending on how the conversation flows you may want to ask her out then or hint at a later date because you have to go now but will call later/tomorrow, etc.

don't push a meeting with her. ask her, if she is busy but selects another day or time then go with it, if you felt the conversation went well you can take a shot at asking her for another day but if she is still busy then you need to back off and say "ok, great talking to you, we'll chat later (or next week) and see if we can get together sometime then" You are not comitting and if she is cold towards that statement, don't bother calling back.

calling right away shows interest not desperation. if you sound desperate you will come off as desperate whether it is the next day, or three days or ten days. Also I love how most of the guys are the ones saying to "wait 2-3 days" while girls have varied opinions.

I would say that the girls hold more weight than the guys here.

Answer 3

After you get the number wait for at the MOST 2 days(girls go crazy after the 3rd day when you ahven't called, trust me, I've been there). Don't call too soon either, it makes you look desprate. You don't have to make plans you can just talk. Just tell her you haven't seen her in a while and were wondering how she is doing. Of course she likes you so you don't have to try too hard with her.

Answer 4

I like when a guy that i meet calls me two days after depending on when you meet if you meet on a Saturday call her on Tuesday (Sunday u were busy, Monday is recovery) when you call her remind her of who you are, then casual talk about what you did the next day and how it was nice to meet her. Then ask her if she would like to go out and take her to get some drinks at a restaurant or bar (if your old enough). or you can take her to dinner at a happen-in place that way there is people around you to avoid a dull moment. then when you are done tell her it was very nice seeing her again, and tell her you would like to do it again sometime... leave it at that. then call her 3 days later to make plans.

Answer 5

call within the next 24 hours at least, and whatevre you do, dont go to the movies. Go to lunch, or just do something in the afternoon. Alot of girls think that if you go out on dates at night time in the beginning, the guy might be looking for something extra afterwards. so if youre really interested, try something like ice skating or rollerblading in the park. dont know where your from, but use your imagination. and also most of the time if you ask her what does sge want to do, most likely she will say, "I dont know" so get some good ideas and ask her which one she would like to do.

Answer 6

I know a lot of people will tell you to wait a few days before calling...but I disagree. When I used to date, I liked it when they called the next day after exchanging numbers. Waiting a few days "to not seem desperate" just seems like an unneccessary game...and who wants to start off a "potential" relationship with games? Call her the next day. Ask her if she'd like to meet for coffee...or lunch....start small so neither one of you are overwhelmed.

If she gave you her number...she's hoping you'll call soon! So remember, no games....call her the next day!! =)

Answer 7

call her in a few hours, if you wait a few days she will think you are not interested an get her feelings hurt, but you dont want to call too soon because she will think you are desperate. I would say maybe 3-4 hours or just before you go to sleep to say hi and whats up.

Answer 8

It depends how long you've known this girl. If you just met her don't ask to go out any where just yet, get to know her. If you've known her for while go ahead and ask her to do something with her. Remember she did give you her number so don't keep her waiting too long. I'd say one or two days

Answer 9

Call in the evening. Yes, it might be nice if you have something planned, or give her ideas of a few ideas you have already and you both decide.

And what you say..............you say, hi there, you gave me your number, I dialed it, you answered, NOW WHAT?? :-) Put her on the spot.

Answer 10

If a girl/woman gives you her phone number, then you need to call her just about right away. She'll actually be expecting your call that same day!!! Just "talk to her", that's all!!!