I'm beginning to think that i am destined to never have my dream of a wedding and a man to love me as much as i love him. i know i have my kids, but it just isn't the same. although my kids fill a huge void in my life, they do not fill it all. i still feel like a part of me is missing that can only be filled with the man that loves me. am i wrong for that? will i ever find my mr. right??
2006-11-09
08:13:23
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trisha_r_c
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krezie, why you gotta be like that? this is not a phase of mine...i've already gone through the "mr. wrong" phase, and i want mr. right.
2006-11-09
08:40:11 ·
update #1
i don't care about glamour. i just want a man who will be there for me through thick and thin and love me for who i am and love my kids for who they are and who would be willing to do anything for me. in return, i am willing to die for my kids, i would be willing to die for mr. right. it isn't about looks. just being himself is all i ask.
2006-11-09
09:08:44 ·
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yes cause women like you deserve tru happiness
2006-11-09 08:18:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Mr.Right is just an illusion. Mr.Rights usually end up alone while the Mr.Bads end up with more than one girl. Why? I've read so much on this topic. Women don't really want a Mr.Right. That's how women are. Women don't value sincerity and true love. They want to be mistreated by the Mr.Bads. I have enough literature including researches and experience to prove it. So, this your yearning for a Mr. Right is just a temporary stage which will go as soon as you find your Mr. Wrong. Sorry, just speaking frankly.
Also, you speak of love, but what is your description of love? Everyone has his/her own descriptions. I have spoken to so many people on this topic and have am now convinced there's no such thing as true and real love. I know i sound like a pessimistic person. But i have a story to tell. I would appreciate if someone would give me some good sites, forumns, etc. where i can discuss this. I'm M/38 and need a lot of answers too.
I was so confused why things dont work for me when i do the best i can, so i started reading on this topic. When i discovered amazed me. My conclusion was either i change myself to Mr.Bad or remain in unsuccessful relationships and unloved. The loneliness was too much to bear so i decided to change myself. In the end, i couldnt do it, the lyings, unfaithfulness, etc. It's not that i dont want to be Mr.Bad. It's just that i can't. As for you, my dear, let me tell you this much. Mr.Rights might be around you. But maybe they are not interesting for you. That's why you cant find them. Mr.Rights are sincere and loving people who live and die for their family, wife, kids, etc. And in return all they want is a hug. Is that what you want in your man? The Mr.Bads know how to stand out because they know women fall for glamour. If you want to find Mr.Right, dont look for glamour.
2006-11-09 08:37:35
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answered by krezei4u 1
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Yes. Of course you will find that Mr. Right.
We experience so many things and everything happens for a reason. We may not know what the reason is yet, but it does. We gain experiences and we learn from them. We use the past to build the future.
Don't worry. God has a plan for you. Just have faith in Him.
Just relax. If you stop looking for love, it will come.
It comes when you least expect it.
It happened to me.
2006-11-09 08:15:17
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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thats the same way I felt but believe me the wonderful men are worth waiting for...don't worry mr. right will be looking for you not the other way around. Patience and Good Luck !
2006-11-09 08:16:21
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answered by pezzle9 2
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Hun, Mr. Right will come to you when you least expect it:) I know you've probably heard this before, but it is sooooo true!
2006-11-09 08:16:12
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answered by sweet kisses 1
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Stop looking for him, that's when you'll find him. And I'm sure he'll come one day. Good luck!
2006-11-09 08:22:38
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answered by Jade64 2
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Maybe. Until then, invest in a really good vibrator.
2006-11-09 08:16:51
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answered by Anonymous
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one can only hope
2006-11-09 08:16:06
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answered by Mean Carleen 7
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