i have a boyfriend i have been dating for a month and a half but before that we were friends for prolly a year.
he has alotta girl friends and i find myself getting too easily jealous and i don't want to be! ive never been this jealous before idk wut 2 do!
2006-11-09 08:08:29 · 12 answers · asked by Faithy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's how it will always be with a guy like that. There are basically 3 kinds of guys, guy whores, good ole boys & nutless mams boys.
Guy whores are good for one thing & one thing only, a good time and a booty call. Cause he is use to a lot of different women,and has a little black book full of names. Those are the kind many women want to change, but they won't! It will be years from now when he gets old & doesn't have his mojo any more and maybe not even then, he will slow down and settle for one woman. He might just end up like one of those old guy's you see riding around in a sports car trying to pick up young chicks! So dont put your feelings out there until you are sure he's not just a Jiggilo and your name won't end up on his list!
God ole boys, thats what you want! He may not be the prettiest thing or the richest, but that means he won't have women chasing him all the time, he's more than likely gonna hold you close & LOVE YOU cause he wants too! And be a good provider for you & your kids. You know the happy family life everybody wants.
Then the Mama's boy. Oh he's sweet as pie alright. But Mama will always be first, better hope she likes you!!! If he's too sweet you know what that means, your not the right gender!!!
My point is please pick wisely for your own happiness & the sake of your heart. Just watch him for a while you'll be able to tell where his heart is! Which type of guy is this one? You shouldn't have to feel jealous, I mean if you have a good guy, he wouldn't ever hurt you or let anyone else hurt you or his family. It is a good feeling!!!!!!!!!!!! Listen to some country music for a while, you;ll be able to picture the down home love and family life that is SOLID AND NEVER ENDING. Not chasing after some insincere man!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 08:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.... Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, however, having "alotta girl friends" probably means he's messin' around anyway and he probably has a super huge ego. If you dump him, it will make his ego soar a little and let you off the hook by not looking jealous. Take it from me, your relationship won't last, so cut your losses now rather than later....
2006-11-09 08:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been on the receiving end of jealousy? If so, try to remember how annoying it is.
C'mon, if he wanted to be with the other girls then he could be. He chooses to be with YOU and he's going to stay with you unless you do something to blow it (unless he's a player and can't be trusted but, gee, after a year you surely know he's not that, don't you?)
Friends make the best lovers because you usually know and trust each other. If you feel you get to know him better before you can trust him, don't sleep with him. Take the time to get to know him better.
2006-11-12 10:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is a way of protecting your territory. Be as honest with him as possible and if he really likes you, he will work with you to overcome jealousy. There is significant research on jealosy in certain psychology periodicals & stuff like that in case you want to read up on it. It's interesting and there isn't anything wrond with being jealous. You just need your guy.
2006-11-09 08:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by THE KING 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel tht way u need 2 tlk 2 him bcuz hes not going to no how u feel therfore nothing will change and u will remain still jelous jus sit him down tlk 2 him tell him hw u feel and trust him...
2006-11-09 08:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs no words that will eliminate your jealousy unless they come from him. If he's easy to talk to and understanding then you might want to explain how you feel and hope he does everything he can to make you feel more secure in your relationship.
2006-11-09 08:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate the competition through any means necessary. :p
2006-11-09 08:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO IGNORE IT AND NOT GET SO JELOUSE BECAUSE A GUY DONT LIKE WHEN THERE GIRL ARE JEOUSE,BECAUSE YOU NEED TO TRUST HIM.BUT JUST DONT LET HIM FLIRT WITH ANY GIRL KICK HER BUTT IF YOU HAVE TOO!! J/P =P
2006-11-09 08:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your jealous because your insecure.......... He has alot of girlfriends cause he is a player,,,,,,,,,,,,,, you are setting yourself up to be cheated on
2006-11-09 08:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by flavorlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cool.. relaxs when u met him u knew he friends
2006-11-09 08:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋