I want to be able to talk with girls. And date them, I want them to see through this fat body and see the nice guy inside. How can I make them see the nice and not the fat?
2006-11-09 08:05:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get those stories you are working on published. Since I take it you are about my age, which is in your teens, what could be more awesome than bragging (as long as you're subtle, of course) that you're published? Seriously, I want to find out what happens with that Seth Hunter character you mentioned.
2006-11-10 08:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The size of your body has nothing to do with who you are. I think a big guy is fun and loveable. When girls see you they will see your weight because that is the way the world works the best thing to do is have lots of confidence. I remember dating one guy who fairly big and had a hunch back which no one would probably date him but I did. He was funny he made laugh, he seemed to have confidence and wasn't shy. You have to find athe right girl who has a big heart and you know will see past your body image. That is hard to know right away which girl that is but have confidence. You may have to work hard to have the girls see beyond the fat. Btu if you show them that you are a happy person and you are confident with who you are they should take interest in that. Confidence and being bold is very important. I am a large person too but I am now married and he was my first real boyfriend so it can happen just wait it out an dbe strong you are handsome the way you are. God Bless!
2006-11-09 08:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen why are so many people on here talking bad about big guys. Listen sweetie FYI Big is in now! I mean women are really liking guys with some weight. Do this:
Get a up to date hair style
Goatee
Dress nice
Get some Confidence
Buy some great cologne
Trust me my dad is the biggest mack daddy. Matter of fact my b/f did not think I was really interested in him. When I told him Big is in... and women like a man to hug them like a teddy bear his confidence hit the roof. Don't become arrogant. If you are on myspace do a search and check out the big men... look at their pages... They are macking Myspace big time.
Women love a man who is neat, smell good and have some confidence. When I was younger a big guy charmed my pants off... and that doesn't happen with me. So... start working on those things today!
Best Wishes Big Daddy
2006-11-09 08:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The confidence is what makes the guy. If you are a fat woman, you would probably have a harder time with getting dates since men are soo visual. Girls will give you a chance if you are funny, fun, honest and have a lot of great qualities. It's all about how you make the woman feel about herself. Just be creative, relaxed, yourself. Maybe do some research on it. Double your Dating (series) is a good download and it helped me.
2006-11-09 08:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by THE KING 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be more confident. Talk about interesting subjects and be funny. Girls like nice guys who are funny and witty. Where I come from usaully the umm...bigboned guys usaully always have girlfriends because they're really charismatic. Practice talking in the mirror if you're really shy. Just don't act like a jerk or talk about yourself the whole time(only if your talking like: oh yes that happened to me too.)
2006-11-09 08:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better be a funny fat man, cause thats the only kind people like.If you aint funny and you dont have no cash then you cant shine a turd brotha your ugly and thatss all their is as you get older youll just be uglier thats life but one day youll find someone to put out.Someday
2006-11-09 08:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck.
Women are far more obsessed with phsyical appearance than men.
A fat chick can still get all she wants, a fat guy has no hope.
2006-11-09 08:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence will take you a long way. Just act like you were talking to anyone around her or girls. You dont have to be the hottest to date the hottest.
2006-11-09 08:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by geoffzaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like a very nice guy already--just be this honest when you talk to girls--a lot of girls are looking for a nice, honest person----girls are deeper then guys most of the time
2006-11-09 08:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how fat we're talkin. Most chicks would probably give you a chance, but...Are you morbidly obese? If so, you should try to get healthy first.
2006-11-09 08:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋