i really want to break up with her
2006-11-09 08:04:56 · 20 answers · asked by NICK F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is right - what you can do about it - nothing.
Have nice day.
2006-11-09 08:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the situation this way....the longer you continue to date her the more opportunities she has to learn things about you to embarass you or hold against you. This chick seems like she's turning into an enemy and you can't afford to have someone that close to you that you don't trust. You made it clear that you want to break up with her...prolonging the break up will not help you in the long run. You take the risk that whomever you date will try to get revenge later and you can't control what they say. Your behavior and comments you make about her (or don't make) will be the deciding factor in conclusions reached by other people. She seems childish to threaten to bad mouth you--tell her to grow up and try to ignore the fall out. Good Luck
2006-11-09 08:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing cause that's her mouth and she's gonna say watever she wants to regardless to if if true or false. It's up to the ppl she saying these things to believe her or not so u really don't have any control over that. Once you know that u never treated her badly and that you r a good person then u could dump her knowing that when ur Ms. Right comes along, she would've acquired the greatest b/f ever. So do what u gotta do and forget about her cause once it's over, u shouldn't care what she goes around telling others cause it wont be your problem.
2006-11-09 08:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then break up with her, who cares what she says after you break up. She is almost expected to trash you after you break up, so it is not like that will be a permanent stain on your record. Break up and move on and quit worrying about what she might say. Just be smart and do not go around trying to trash her, it will make you look petty and small, be the bigger person and just tell people that might ask that it just did not work and how nice she was...
2006-11-09 08:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go for it. If she does, then oh well. Anyone who would take someones word rather then finding out for themselves can't be dealt with. You want a go getter! Any who, girls know that when a couple splits, the girl will have negative things to say- it's only natural and right in our eyes, unless, of course, it was a clean break up. But I wouldn't worry about her and her threat to spread rumors about you, unless they are true. In which the next girlfriend will find out for herself.
2006-11-09 08:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to break up with her then do it. Who cares what she says about you. The people that really know and that are really your friends will know the truth. I am sure that anyone that has been around the two of you as a couple will also know the truth. If you continue things with her just because you are afraid of what she will say then you are letting her push you around and she will continue to do so.
2006-11-09 08:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You break up with her and tell everyone she's a bad girlfriend.
2006-11-09 08:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me ahwile to figure out what you're worried about. You're afraid your girlfriend will tell all her girlfriends what a little penis you have and how bad you are at sex. Oh well, no one ever said the trust won't hurt. Yeah, once that "news" gets out, you're gonna be hard to hook up dude.
2006-11-09 08:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 23:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, then do it, no sense in prolonging the miserable!! the sooner its over, the sooner she'll tell people, and the sooner people will forget about it! and besides, if people really know the real you, they won't believe her, unless you really were a bad bf.. im sure not though! good luck... and enjoy your freedom!!! :)
2006-11-09 08:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do the same and bad mouth her. Rise above her pettyness and people wil see who was the bad partner.
2006-11-09 08:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by Not Jonah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋