Lately when I've been having sex with my girlfriend, she usually cums before I do. That's great and all and I'm really glad she is enjoying it but the problem is that she gets really sensitive and it starts to hurt if I keep going. Any suggestions on how I can finish quicker so we could *** around the same time?
2006-11-09 07:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by askewmew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Won't foreplay make her *** more quickly as well?
2006-11-09 07:59:18 · update #1
Wow, too many possibilities to hit them all. But....
1) Adult shops have a lubes that provide a tingling for you - it may help you get there faster.
2) Adult shops have desensitizing lubes, too, for her. Remember, sex isn't all about the intercourse - foreplay is very important.
3) Foreplay could start earlier for you so that you're very excited when you start coitus (intercourse). You could watch a few scenes from a hot movie you like, pictures, she could work you over, oral sex, etc.
4) Aid devices like a vibrating ring for you are likely to help stimulate your prostate and provide you with that extra sensation you need to ***.
5) Make sure she knows what YOU like, too. If you like something specific and it gets you close to your orgasm, be sure she knows about it and see if she will help you with it. You can do what's called "edging". Edging is when you get really, really close, but stop before you actually shoot. Then you wait a few and start again. It builds up the testosterone in your system like nothing else and gets you so close that you can almost (and you can with practice) *** on command.
2006-11-09 07:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay - have her get you almost to that point with a b.j. or hand job and then make love.
2006-11-09 07:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try foreplay so you can get all worked up and tell her to massages your testicles while you are in the act. that will feel better and maybe help you
2006-11-09 07:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay
2006-11-09 07:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 04:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by vogt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her...
2006-11-09 07:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by a a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋