Me and my boyfriend (9 months dating) are supposed to hang out tonight. Well normally he works until 5 and thats when i figured i was going to see him when he was done with work. Well, usually if we talk while hes a work we talk through his work phone. I called, and I was told he left early so I was like ok.. I called his cell he didn't answer so I tried back again 5 minutes later it was shut off and is still shut off. I don't get what is going on here. He's never done this before and he's not the kind of person to cheat. So why is he doing this? and how would you feel if it happened to you.
2006-11-09 07:50:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know he loves you and you trust him, give him time. He might not be ready to talk to you today because he had a bad day at work? Or maybe he's surprising you with something? Keep your hopes up, i bet everything will be fine!
Good luck!
2006-11-09 08:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I really new Deep in my heart he is not one to cheat ,I would think the battery went dead on the phone .
maybe planing something nice for the both of us -this is why he left early.
Now if he did not show up soon of call in a fashionable time then I don't believe I would be thinking he would not cheat on me .
I would then no he had some thing else to do that obviously he did not wish for me to find out and the last thing he expected you to do was call work just to find out he left early.
I would be very heart broken due to the fact when I did call on the cell phone it ring and no answer--5min. later the phone was off .Sorry I'm no dummy.I would definitely keep my eyes open but probably know he is on his way out of my life .Because there is a very good reason on his end I'm sure why he shut his phone off after you called the 1st time
2006-11-09 16:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he might have had something important suddenly come up that makes him unable to answer his phone or even have it on. Like being in a hospital. Alright that's giving him the benefit of doubt.
But don't overreact just yet. Stay calm and when you do talk to him remain calm. Go with your gut if you feel that he is lying then he probably is, since you know he better than a bunch of people on here.
2006-11-09 15:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time. Maybe he got in trouble for too many personal phone calls at work. He could be feeling bad and just needs time to think about everything. If you pressure him right now u are probably going to be the one he takes out his anger on. So just wait until he calls you.
2006-11-09 15:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't the kind who would cheat, then why worry? Give him the benefit of the doubt here. Maybe he's trying to surprise you or something. Chill out and see what happens. Wouldn't you feel like a big dummy if he was surprising you? Honey, just don't over re-act, take it as it comes.
2006-11-09 15:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusion until you know the facts. It could me an emergency came up and he had no time to call you. It could mean a lot of things. But do him a favor and yourself, and wait until he provides you with an explaination. Your mind wants to create monsters, but it really serves no purpose at this moment. So just wait until you hear from him. Let him know of your concern without accusing him of anything. The story will unfold.
2006-11-09 15:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think something came up and he wasn't able to get to the phone. Don't call back Wait and see how long it takes for him to call. Don't tell him you have called. Play it off like you didn't notice. Then see where it goes from there. ..
2006-11-09 15:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be sooo upset.but the thing is i do it to people that i dont want to talk to...maybe he isnt cheating maybe his battery went or he doesnt have minutes on his phone or maybe he is upset with you..if he has a house phone call his house and be like whats up with your phone???see what happens from there
2006-11-09 15:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get get to worked up about it. Just make sure to casually ask, "where were you last night at work? i called and they said you left early?" Don't accuse him of anything because it might end up in a fight. Just give him the chance to explain himself. and if he seems to be lying....get rid of him
2006-11-09 15:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by smuggie71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was doing something BAD.
If he is hiding it from you then becareful.
I would Not call hima nd wait til he calls you, and don't go around telling everyone your business.
When he calls ask him whats up?
and If it sounds like BS then it is.
Keep us posted with his respose to help you with your next move.
Good luck
Meg
2006-11-09 15:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋