2006-11-09 07:44:42 · 48 answers · asked by christopher h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends--are you sure you're not trying to hang on under the guise of friendship? And are you willing to introduce your new girlfriend to your ex-gf to avoid the appearance that you're trying to hide something. The last guy I knew that claimed all his ex-gfs were friends of his was just wanting to stay in their lives, always offering to help with any problem that arose, etc. So only you know if this situation is legit. What's you new gf think?
2006-11-09 07:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If people think it is, I think its crazy. I am like best friends with my ex and actually i turn to him when I have a "guy" question. He has his girlfriend and I have my boyfriend. We talk about our relationships, and its great because its just platonic. we were great friends before we dated, it didnt work out, and we somehow are still good friends... If your worried about it tell both parties. Tell your girl that there is nothing going on and if she does like/love you she will trust you! tell your ex that the friendship might get alittle slow because you have to make sure you girlfriend is ok with it! Take it from me, my guy has a majority of female friends it took forever for me to believe that they were just friends and not trying to get with him. It will take time! but if you guys are all friends it shouldnt be that much of a problem.
2006-11-09 07:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by GeT_uR_oWn_LiFe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong, but you should look at the type of relationship you have with your ex and it's not a bad idea to maybe discuss the topic with your current girlfriend..
You don't want her to feel intimidated by your ex, do you?
2006-11-09 07:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by d0t_h4k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should continue to be freinds with the ex if u still liekher like a freind or more
2006-11-09 07:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by skyfallingchickenlittle37 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and your new girlfriend.I don't think this is wrong because we live in a interdepence world so we need friends.There's a saying in west that "If you have 50 friends it is not enough.If you have 1 enemy it is too many.So it's better to make friends."
2006-11-09 08:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Just because you don't go out anymore doesn't mean you have to hate each other! As long as nothing is going on between you guys, I don't see a problem. (If your new girlfriend doesn't like you hanging out with her, then you're probably not with the right girl...no offense.)
2006-11-09 07:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bina-Bina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is okay, as long as you, your current girlfriend, and your ex-girlfriend all know your roles, and respect each other. If anyone gets too playful or jokes around about it, it could cause hurt feelings very quickly.
2006-11-09 07:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't see any wrong in it...but it's your present girl you have to worry about...some women don't like the ex to be on the scene...some are OK about it...ask your girl how she feels...also if there's nothing going on between you and the ex...then there should not be a problem
2006-11-09 07:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i applaud people for being able to stay friends after a break-up. you need to talk about it with your girlfriend -- if it bothers her than take that into consideration... which isnt to say you need to cut off your ex as a friend... but maybe distance yourself a little and explain to your gf that she needs to compromise on this one. Or try to get them to befriend each other.. double dates or what not with your ex and her new bf.
2006-11-09 07:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by nena 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong as long as it is just a friendship and she respects your relationship with your new girlfriend. Wouldn't hurt if she made friends with your new girlfriend too.
2006-11-09 07:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋