Classy Women: How many dates is the absolute minimum before sex is okay?

Question

I am dating a woman who is amazingly classy, and she is giving me sexual signals for sure, but I know that I cannot make a move too soon. She is too good for that. I need to wait a certain amount of time or a certain number of dates at a minimum. What is that minimum? Would any of you be willing to discuss this with me?

Answer 1

Most women with class and self respect have a time limit to when they will have sex with you, even though she is sending sexy signals , the signals are to let you know that when she is ready she will have sex with you but until then they will play coy and flirt with you like crazy. for me i have 4 month rule. and the reason for the 4 month rule is to make sure that the guy is all he says he is. and i will tell them from the beginning that i have a 4 month rule right away it weeds out the get em and hit em guys. and for me and my experiences not many guys last but the true man really do and for those who have waited the wait is well worth it . and that's when i know that i have a pretty decent guy lol

Answer 2

Classy Women Sex

Answer 3

This whole idea as sex as something you 'save up' and then 'give' to a guy as a favor once he 'earns' it from you is a rather unhealthy and childish point of view. It seems like very 'junior high' mentality. (How long are you supposed to wait for her to 'put out'...?")

I think once you're both adults... If you want to screw then screw- and if you don't; don't.

If/when she wants sex, you'll know it, at least, you should. Make sure you're not confusing classy with uptight or prudish. A 'classy' woman won't make you ask for sex, she'll make a move herself when it's obvious you're both in the mood and the time is right.

Answer 4

You don't ask a question like that Tulsa Boy. You go as far as she will allow you. When she says stop, you stop! Never try to go further than she will allow. She'll let you know when she's ready for sex. As a man, you let her know you are sexually interested. As a gentleman, you respect her limits. There isn't some magic number of dates that you must go on before sex. It's up to the woman. Don't get caught up in the "how many dates until I'm allowed to have sex with you BS".

Answer 5

I would ask her where she see's the relationship going and just bring up sex casually but respectfully. That way, you dont look like a fool and you can both be comfortable with whatever happens. Those signals may be just saying I really like you but don't always mean I want to have sex with you. Just talk about it, trust me, I have a lot of experience, but am now happily married for 4 years. Good luck!!!!

Answer 6

I dont date white men or thugs. What if blk wmn date blk mn who aren't white or a thug; u still think they have no class or do they have 2 date u 4 u 2 think that or hav any respect 4 blk women in general? This still feel general white wmn date jail men 2. So, why look 2 blk wm as general classless women. Who has to have class to be intelligent? these r all labels.

Answer 7

Let me tell you that even classy women, when they get the urge for a handsome man, can make allowances for sex to happen a lot more imediately, without any time scale.

Answer 8

At least 2 months worth of dates.

Answer 9

Depending on the chemisty I'm either from three dates to a month.

Answer 10

This "classiness" business is an illusion. You are projecting an inferiority complex. Who cares if she's "too good" for your sexual advances? If she's sending the signals, go for it.