Well, this guy and i used to date a while back...like a year ago off and on...because we argued so much. Come to find out about 6 months ago most of the times he was "talkin" or going out with me he was dating another girl at the same time...well now him and the girl are officially over she's seeing someone else and i still have feelings for this guy. I love him so0o0o much! but the only thing is we still argue about just the stupidest things you could think of. We don't do it purposely it just happens. and lately alot of rumors have been flying around about me and him because we r "talkin" again. What should i do? What are some ways to try and stop from argueing so0o much? I need as much advice as possible! *Thanx!*
2006-11-09 07:04:12 · 3 answers · asked by Mickenzie Jones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like you may not need to be with this guy. Wouldn't you rather have a relationship that doesn't involve so much arguing? Say you two get married and have children, would you want to subject your kids to arguements like that? If you're really set on this working, try talking out your problems calmly and agree that if it starts to get heated, you will both say a something silly or make a funny noise or something to break the tension and bring the atmosphere down to a calmer level. It could go different ways with this guy. Before you get back into a relationship with him, ask yourself-can you really trust this guy? If not, can you really be happy with someone you don't trust? Think about it before you make a decision.
2006-11-09 07:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what is it about the way you speak that makes you defiensive and willing to argue. Is it a matter of trust? If you are protecting yourself because you dont trust him, don't go there again. It is hard to change old habits and before you start going down path of maybes does HE think you should get together, or is it just your feelings for him. Its not what those around you think you should do its what you know you should do.
2006-11-09 07:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get back with a guy you argue with all the time and who was dating another girl the same time he had you? Is he really that good sexually or do you have such a low opinion of yourself that you think you don't deserve something better?
2006-11-09 07:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋