is there anyway to convince that person that your not just a booty call but your a decent pick for a girlfriend?
2006-11-09 06:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by yourmygoodfeeling 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. but you have to stop putting out that way he can see you got other qualities. Nothing wrong with booty calls but if they happen frequently with the same person then its not longer just a booty call, its more or less a relationship. You are letting him just get the best out of you and you shouldnt. Once or twice its ok. But is he doing you and not wanting to be with you... thats not booty call, hes treating you like a whoe
2006-11-09 07:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about cutting the supply of booty off? When he asks why he is being cut off, let him know that he is just making you feel like a piece of meat to him and nothing more. You know the old saying, "Why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free?" No, I am not calling you a cow, it is just the principal. As long as he is getting all the benefits and has to make no commitment of any kind, then why should he?
2006-11-09 15:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't convince a guy of that; that's something he needs to realize on his own. from experience i've learned that if a relationship starts out as nothing more than a booty call....it usually stays that way. but that's not to say that you're not a great catch! maybe you don't need to be caught by him. maybe you deserve a guy who's into having relationships and not concerned with having multiple booty calls. good luck!
2006-11-09 14:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want to change the rules of the game. Once a booty call, almost always a booty call.
2006-11-09 14:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being used. Stop being a booty call and if he's a decent guy (which I doubt already) he will take you out. If not, you don't need a guy like that.
2006-11-09 14:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by zippo_lyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut out the benefits until they become your lover. Why would he pick you for a girlfriend if you are already doing the job of a girlfriend without the title.
2006-11-09 14:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long its been going on i think. Ive been in that situation and usually if there is chemisty a relationship just sorta falls into place. If you guys have been just friends w/ benefits for awhile now, than it may not turn out they way you are hoping. Have a sit down w/ him. Find out where he stands w/ the whole situation.
2006-11-09 14:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from 25 years of experience I would say hell NO! but I have recently meet a happily married ex booty call relationship. Hey it could happen. Wont know until you try.
2006-11-09 14:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lewis M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too late. He won't value you in the same way. You have already messed it up. Stop putting out for a cheap thrill and go for the real thing with someone new.
2006-11-09 14:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one... if your already sleeping with him, then you just have to show him all the other good things you're good at, besides a bed partner... like a cook, sports, like the same things he does... it may take some time, but, maybe he'll come around... and even if he doesn't , friends with benefits is not so bad,.... is it?
2006-11-09 14:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋