I am youngest in my family and i have 3 sisters and 2 brothers and they are all older by lot than me. I am always being picked on by them especialy by my sister whos 15 shes worst!! Is it always so bad to be youngest? I wish i were older and had someone younger then me sometimes.
2006-11-09 06:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm the oldest ... I wouldn't trade it in for anything ... lol ... sorry about your older siblings ... they're always going to pick on you ... but if you notice ... I bet they won't let anybody else mess with you ... you're their little sister - everyone is looking out for you wither you think so or not ... I teased my 2 younger brothers their whole life ... but that doesn't mean I wouldn't take a bullet for one of them ... try not to think about being the youngest ... just think about being the most taken care of ... they'll grow out of it eventually ... !
2006-11-09 06:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. I had 3 children 2 girls and 1 boy. as they grew up they were constantly picking on the youngest, My interfering only made it worse, She went through hell with them. As they got older and she got older it didn't seam to matter there ages were not that far from each other. My youngest became My oldest Best friend. I each day I thanked God for that Because My oldest dies 3 years ago, So don't get upset, someday it will change and you will all look at each other in a different light. Just enjoy life, Don't fret about the small things.
2006-11-09 07:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youngest rocks. I am the youngest of two. The Oldest always gets blamed and they have to take on more responsibility. By being the youngest there is room for mess ups.
2006-11-09 06:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the oldest and I felt like I got screwed!
I had to always watch my sisters, never got to go anywhere because i was a built in babysitter!
I also was the one who got everything the hardest, punishments, etc. Then I see my little sisters get it easy, I guess I paved the way for them...
My husband was the youngest and he was always picked on and never got his way he was the youngest of 6 brothers and sisters! HE HATED IT TOO! I think it has its moments either way!
2006-11-09 06:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the oldest of 3 kids and the oldest of 16 grandkids.....it's not all cherry pie. i get in trouble most of the time b/c i am the oldest and have to set the example. i used to get in trouble for everything my sister and brother did b/c i should have been watching them or blah blah blah. you just have to make it through the kid years and then when you're an adult show them that you're not the person to be messed with anymore. that's what i did and now they all ask me for advice and even say they're sorry for getting me into trouble when we were kids. and look at it this way, when you have dates and stuff your older brothers will protect you and that's always really cool. good luck
2006-11-09 06:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A situation like that usually stems from early childhood>>>
The oldest ones sometimes pick on the youngest ones because they're jealous of the youngest ones... because they hate it when the youngest gets their way, gets petting, gets attention from the parents.
All they can see is that they're not getting attention, etc, it like they used to, before the young one came along.
Their main focus is put on the young one because the parent's main focus is on the young one.
They're noticing what the parents are doing & it makes them mad because they feel left out.
They're not stopping to think that the parents undoubtedly gave them plenty of attention, etc, before the youngest one came along... & that, now, it's the youngest one's turn.
2006-11-09 07:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the oldest and I have 2 younger sisters.. and let me tell you.. they use to BUG the hell outta me. they always wanted to go where I did, I always had to babysit them, if I went some place they had to go. always got into my clothes, into my stuff.. and we had to share a room so wich made it harder. If they did something bad I got in trouble for it. it sucked.. now that they are older I love it cause i don't have them follow me everywhere. they go and do there own things now..
2006-11-09 06:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being the youngest you can learn from you brothers and sisters mistakes, and that way yoy'll get into less trouble!!
2006-11-09 07:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by m cheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby always get away with more. I got the h e ll beat outta me but my baby brother got away with everthing . My mom said she was not as young with my brother than she was wit me. She had more energy when I was comin up.
2006-11-09 07:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't worry about it, i'm the youngest out of all my brothers and sisters im just 16, but i just tell them when they pick that they were once my age, so get on my level!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 06:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋