we have only been together for 4 months he says a week away will tell if he cant live wothout me or if he can, he talks to other women tells them how sexy they are and when confronted tells me I am crazy. Given we have been fighting alot but I dont feel it is enough for him to want his space and flirt and talk to other girls... dont know what to do he means the world to me and says if he wanted to break up he would come out and say it, why a week and why does he need to be away from me???????
2006-11-09 06:40:20 · 11 answers · asked by chrissylynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you. Generally speaking, 3-4 months is about when infatuation/interest burns off. If there's nothing there, most people break up. He has broken up with you, but doesn't have the guts to say it, in case he still needs to use you later. You deserve better. Guys who really like you get closer as time goes on, not want to get away from you.
2006-11-09 06:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause people are never really that forthcoming with the truth - and if I were you I'd back it up . . he's not ready to be committed and he's staying away from you because you're cramping his style. . I don't know how old you are, but guys rarely want to be in a serious, committed relationship when they're younger and sometimes the older ones are like that too- - There's something to be said for "sowing your wild oats." Get out have fun, date different people, learn different things, see different things. . get a life too. That's the problem with us "women" we sit around waiting on the guy when we know full well, what the deal is. . we're always in denial. And God gave women great instincts which we never seem to pay attention to. . if smells rotten, feels rotten, it's probably rotten. Be independent and move on when you see things are heading south don't wait for them to "officially" tell you, they want to see other people, or just want to be single. . cause they'll string you on forever, . . cause remember they don't want confrontation. .and will do anything to avoid it. Girl don't sit around licking your wounds get out and enjoy your life, you only go around once.
2006-11-09 06:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the week free to see if he can hook up with someone new. You are kind of the "fall guy". He will still have you waiting in the wings to run back to if he fails. Dump him.
2006-11-09 06:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by MG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I surely have made those errors interior the previous. once you tell your guy which you like a wreck, do no longer say it except you extremely somewhat sense which you like a wreck. I have been given offended in the same undertaking with my boyfriend by way of fact he replaced into spending lots time together with his acquaintances to the factor the place I felt he had extra relaxing with them than he did with me. So I instructed him i wanted a wreck and he took that into severe attention. We ended up taking each week wreck from one yet another, yet we did get decrease back together via the tip of the week fortunately. i replaced into sobbing lots nevertheless throughout the time of the week, i will admit. In all honesty, breaks are stupid. i myself do no longer understand them by way of fact even once you do flow on a wreck for each week and additionally you sleep with somebody else interior that week, isn't that seen cheating? i myself say it is, so extremely a wreck is merely stupid in case you question me. under no circumstances recommend a wreck. What you ought to have carried out replaced into ask him "hi, do you concepts if I carry out with you and your co-workers? It sounds like relaxing!" and notice what he says. You under no circumstances be attentive to, according to risk he could have suggested that should be completely cool. although, if he says to no longer come then i could grow to be suspicious of him. What style of boyfriend does not want his woman to fulfill his acquaintances? besides, provide it some days. do no longer chase him down, as much as you probably desire to precise now. do merely no longer even confer with him in any respect via facebook or telephone or something. look ahead to him to communicate to you first so he can think of each little thing out. If interior the tip he says he desires to "wreck up" then merely enable it flow. so lots extra fish interior the sea. yet while he says what my guy suggested on the tip of our wreck up "i'm sorry infant, which will never take place returned" then you definately can be superb. A 12 months later my guy and that i are nevertheless doing stunning together, so it may be able to artwork out for you 2 besides. you in elementary terms the two ought to be keen to artwork it out is all.
2016-12-14 04:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by vogt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....he's smooth....asking permission to be free to do whatever for a week while you wait to let him back into your life. He'll screw around and argue that you agreed to it. Don't be his puppet.
2006-11-09 06:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by T-Bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for a free pass to hook up with other girls.
2006-11-09 06:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's messing with other girls. give him a break permantly and move on to bigger and better!
2006-11-09 06:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by NIC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time for a wake-up call; you're being played!
2006-11-09 06:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a bum and he's giving you a bum excuse to break up. he sounds like scum to me. do him a favor and dump his butt for good.
good luck! men are slobs!
2006-11-09 06:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by peewee47_15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he can have sex with them without feeling guilty!!!
2006-11-09 06:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Paul M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋