and you know she has guys calling. she says don't worry and won't prove it to you. wont show you her phone and hides it. what would you do
2006-11-09 06:38:26 · 19 answers · asked by true2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, if you two aren't married, and you are not paying her phone bill, you have no business looking at her phone.
It is obvious why she isn't showing you the phone, right? She's calling other dudes, and other dudes are calling her.
That being said, you need to go out with other girls... AND you need to be a man and tell her.... show her your phone and the other girls that you are calling and that are calling you. Trust me on this one. She'll respect you more and want you more.
2006-11-09 06:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a woman who is trying to hide something. If there's nothing to worry about then why is she hiding it from you? I have male friends and I have no problems with leaving my phone around and my husband can pick it up whenever he wants and look in to the phone. In the past I was dating a guy and living with him but there was so much drama that I was done mentally with the relationship and just didn't tell him yet. Anyways, I started seeing other people and had their numbers in my cell phone and I had that bad boy on lock every time. I would go to take a bath and he'd try to look into it but couldn't because of the lock. I got defensive and turned it around to make it seem like he didn't have any trust in me. See where I'm going, there should be no reason for her to hide her phone unless she has something that she knows is wrong or going to become wrong. Maybe she's not actually cheating but flirting, regardless she knows it's wrong and thats why she's not allowing you to see it. Good luck!
2006-11-09 06:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it if you really like her. Females do not appreciate jealousy; so no matter how much it hurts, do not show it. If she begins to lie to you, though, then you can see the writing on the wall and get out. However, she might be playing the field, testing the waters, seeing which people (men) she wants to befriend and those, like you, she might want to fall in love with. Do not be afraid of being hurt, though, you will be OK. Forget the damn phone and have a good time. Always do the most loving thing and NEVER give an ultimatum.
2006-11-09 06:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether there is trust or not you have no right to ask her to divulge private information. Just because you are in a relationship it doesn't mean you have the right to stick you nose in her business. Have you shown her your phone? If she's telling you not to worry, why are you?
Chill out and don't get ahead of yourself!
2006-11-09 06:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, that does sound like she is trying to hide something from you. If she wasn't, then she wouldn't have anything to hide. And she could use the excuse and say that you are being nosy and she doesn't want you in her buisness, but if you are dating her, and you have supspicions, then she should be willing to prove you wrong. Since she isn't, she is trying to hide things from you.
2006-11-09 06:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mine your own business and not invade her privacy. Being persistent over something as small as that will make her not like you. So if you were to see her phone and there was guys that called her what would you do? Sometimes what we don't know can't hurt us.
2006-11-09 06:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by UBCare4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her phone is none of your business. If you think she's getting calls from other guys, then maybe she doesn't consider the 2 of you exclusive.
2006-11-09 06:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that hide things are difficult to trust. Even though you have no real reason to view her phone...I'd move on.
2006-11-09 06:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this and getting western unions for a hundred bucks? She's either a hooker, or she's cheating on you, but either way, you need to cut bait, kid.
2006-11-09 07:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a player and she doesnt't give two cents about you, she just likes the attention from guys. Walk!!!
2006-11-09 06:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋