My ex and I broke up almost a month ago. He moved on or so I thought. He asked me out again a few days ago. I want to say yes so bad, but I don't want to get hurt again.
2006-11-09 06:36:19 · 17 answers · asked by opinionated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on why you broke up with him in the first place. One month isn't long for him to change his ways.
2006-11-09 06:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts girl! I mean he's obviously your ex for a reason. Don't back peddle! Look ahead and keep it in forward motion. Theres someone out there with your name written on his heart. I know how difficult it may seem being single and all right now and he probably made you feel good at times, but remember he hurt you. Don't know all the details but my advice is never take an ex back under any circumstances.
2006-11-09 06:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different. There have been numerous time when me and my boyfriend have broken up and then gotten back together. The reason for that is because we feel as though nobody in this world is perfect. There really isn't a such thing as the "perfect" relationship.
In every relationship there will be love, arugments, resentment, and then wanting to get back together.
Maybe your ex really does miss you and wants to give things another chance. It wouldn't hurt to give him another chance.
2006-11-09 06:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by mizthang_keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard topic. Think about the reason or reasons why you broke up. I live by the phrase, "Exes are exes for a reason". If this guy hurt you once the odds are he will do it again. Ask yourself if its worth it.
2006-11-09 06:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your ex saw how great you are. Of course, go out with him and tell him how you feel about him. Go into any new relationship with your eyes wide open. Do not be afraid of being hurt; give love and life a chance. Being hurt is part of life. Nothing wrong with being careful though.
2006-11-09 06:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say YES. Although it would help to know who broke it off first.
But you know the old saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Obviously, he didn't find anything better to his liking with his month off.
But if you do say yes, play a little more coy with him. Let him "earn" his way back into your good graces. besides, guys are more attracted to a challenge anyways. :)
2006-11-09 06:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio_draconis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think moving forward is always the best plan. im sure once he finds something else that peaks his interest he will leave again. dont fall back into the same trap. its just comfortable thats why you want to go back. try someone new... good luck to you.
2006-11-09 06:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of why you broke up in the first place. then ask yourself, is it really worth it? he may do it again and you'll be back where you started. good luck hope this helps
2006-11-09 06:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself first why you broke up with the person. if it was because of something he can change, is he willing to change for you. If not, then do not waste your time. Go on with your life.
2006-11-09 06:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by gigi120pelham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just end up getting hurt again, maybe even worse than last time.
2006-11-09 06:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋