Alright, I am having a bit of a problem trying to figure out if this woman likes me, so bear with me for a sec. I have been spending some time with a lady, not a whole lot due to her wierd schedule. Anyway, last week she told me that she likes me and that we should stay friends for a little while. I mostly listened and later on called her and spoke with her for a little bit about what we talked about. Yesterday, she and I took a walk and had a pretty good time. We then went out to our church to help paint and again had a good time. Finally, yesterday I noticed on the walk that sometimes I would by mistake walk off a little bit away from her, and then she would say, I don't bite. Then I showed her something on my phone, and when she leaned over her shoulder was touching mine, and lastly I felt there were some other signs of interest. What is your take on this ladies? Give me your thoughts.
Sorry this is so long, and thank you very much.
2006-11-09 06:36:11 · 22 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out on a date. If she says not right now or we could hang as friends she's not interested in being anything more than friends with you. If she accepts she's interested. Sometimes women flirt with men they just want to be friends with just to get attention.
2006-11-09 06:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if she likes you, but would like to take things slowly. Get to know you a lot better. You said something about church, if she is a Christian woman, She will take things slow. Next time you take a walk, try holding her hand. I wont hold hands with a man I don't like or I don't feel comfortable with. Many women will not make the first move in fear of rejection and or seeming like an improper woman. Nothing wrong with being friends first. That's how many long term relationships start off and Most of them stay together for the long hall. When we jump to quickly we normally land way to hard.
2006-11-09 06:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not having a problem...you are on your way to possibly starting something great! We women are fickled beings. I think she is going through the whole "Feeling You Out" period. She is deciding whether she can truly see her self with you. She is testing you out with the little flirts ie long stares, accidental touches. She likes you, but haven't decided how far she wants to take it. Advance it as she advances. Let her know by responding (appropriately) to her hints of flirts. Remember women love to be treated like women. Good luck
2006-11-09 06:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by annesome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be interested in getting to know you better as a friend for the time being. She told you she likes you and wants to stay friends. When or if she wants a romance with you, she'll let you know. No rush, it's only been a few weeks.
2006-11-09 06:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she wants to take it slow! It seems like she enjoy being with you, but she don't want to rush into anything. Take it one day at a time. Don't crowd her, but then don't give up to much space. When you call her...ask her is this a good time to talk to her. When you ask her out, ask her when is the best time for you and her to get together. And ask her is you taking it to slow and if so Let you know! Let her know that you like her, but you don't want to move to fast for her.
2006-11-09 06:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she liked you but, wanted to remain friends?
It would help to have more behind the situation since what she sounds like she's doing could hint that she likes you but, she could also just be more flirtacious and open than other people.
Try asking her out to the movies and use her reaction as a better guide.
2006-11-09 06:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is interested in you too. the little touches here and there say she wants to get a bit more touching in. take it slow and continue to call. you will know when the time is right for that "first kiss"
2006-11-09 06:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by wonderblu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her if she would be interested in going out on a date. The worst that can happen is she will tell you she "only wants to be friends".
It sounds to me as though she likes you, why not just let the relationship progress where it might?
2006-11-09 06:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by madcatlover7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is really feelin you.You can tell (according to you) that she likes the time you and her share. Dont rush anything tho. Just go with the flow of things and time will tell , maybe in the near future. Be Blessed!!!
2006-11-09 06:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she likes you. She's just not interested in rushing anything. Here's a tip:If she spends time with you and sees you when she can, she likes you. End of story.
2006-11-09 06:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋