So I called him yesterday I knew that he was off so I called he said he would call me back but instead he texted messaged me saying that he missed me and if I missed him, I sent back yea and he asked if he could come over later and i again sent back yea and he said he would call me as soon as he could...well he didnt call back so I called him later like at 10 and he was like I'm talking to my daughters mom about her school problems I'll call you back well he didnt call again so I was like fine and I went out with friends as not to think of him well that didnt help. I guess I will just let him go but my question is should I call him and tell him anything...like dont bother calling or texting me. Or should I just wait and see if he calls and says anything about not calling?
Thanks yall.
2006-11-09 06:35:43 · 7 answers · asked by Monica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait a few days and if he doesn't call than you should call and hear his excuse for not calling than deside what to do.
2006-11-09 06:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what is best for you. You don't owe him anything. If he didn't call you back to explain anything to you, what do you have to explain to him. I think he will get the hint once he sees you aren't calling. If you do however decide to pick up the phone and call to say don't call or text me, he's gone hit you with some smooth lines and any thoughts you had about him never callin again will fly right out of ya mind. So if you seriuosly want to end things, just cut him off. Or else play along and be at his every beck and call. Usually if a man or anybody for that matter, is off and has access to a phone and don't call, it's because they don't want to talk. And if he sends txt msg, then he probably can't talk, you said he has a baby mother, and they talking about the child at 10 o'clock at night? I don't want to read too much into it, but he sounds like a man with somethings to hide. Do what's best for you though,and try not to get caught up in the drama. All the best.
2006-11-09 14:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some advice from a lady in her 40's . . I'm not going to tell you wrong. . .Stall him out - because it does sound "suspect." I don't know if he's playing a game or what, but my advice is NEVER appear too needy - having said that, up your willpower and when he does call, let it go a day or two then get back to him - you have to show guys you have a life that includes outside interests as well -- you never make it seem as though you're just sitting there waiting on him to get back to YOU. . even if you're not busy, "appear" that way -- the thrill is in the chase for guys. . even after you get them, being a little aloof is always a turn on. . but definitely act like you have a life too.
2006-11-09 14:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was really busy and he didn't have a lot of time to give you the conversation that he wanted to. I would give it a few days with you not calling or texting him, and let him make the move, if after a few days you hear nothing from him, then you know your answer.
2006-11-09 14:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. If you do, even if is only to say: "don't ever call me nor text me in your life" they know you're doing it only because you're hoping they'll apologize or beg. Just forget about him. He's too busy for you. I'm sure you'll find a guy who will dedicate time to you as you deserve. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 14:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Guagui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be. He's playing some kind of game. Don't call him and when he calls you just don't answer.
2006-11-09 14:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by UBCare4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... Just leave it alone for now and if he never calls back then obviously he's a loser and you need better anyways... Just let him go and find a guy who can make you his first priority...
2006-11-09 14:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋