we broke up but stayed friends and then he told me that he wanted me back and i told him that i felt the same way but he didn't call me for 3 weeks becuase he'd just got out of foster care and hadn't them for 7 yrs. then he wanted me to move in with them and when i got there his brother's soon to be ex girlfriend told me that he got her into a liplock and tried putting his hand down her pants but she pushed him away and she said that he was high and had one beer so that's supposedly why he did it and all he says is that he doesn't remember anything about that night.
2006-11-09 06:32:01 · 19 answers · asked by drizztbabe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look for a MORE DECENT person! You deserve BETTER!
2006-11-09 06:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him? Hell No! First of all he obviously has some issues regarding getting high. I mean if he can't remember his actions the boy is having black outs. Never the less he's a dog all the same. I mean the guy was missing in action for three weeks, Foster care or not theres always a way to reach someone. Don't sleep with him, don't call him, don't even look in his direction! There is someone out there that is willing to be honest and committed to you, and he's not it.
2006-11-09 06:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were there any other witnesses to this "attack?" She may have made it up but why would she unless she wants to be with him. If he did do it and states that he doesn't remember because of the beer and getting high, then he's lying. I hate it when someone uses alcohol or other drugs as an excuse to do what they want and then when they sober up and regret it, they try to blame it on the paraphnalia. What is your guy telling you? You're woman's intuition is a wonderful and powerful thing and you should listen to it. Another thing is that if you have to ask then maybe you shouldn't be with him. Can you trust him?
2006-11-09 06:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not get back with him. He seems like a bad kinda guy to be around. You don't need that type of person.. and I'm not saying all but some kids in foster care go back to the old habits that they came from before foster care. the things that their biology parents did.. My mom had foster kids and they didn't have "good" habits and the older ones are stuck in their ways. so like I say "old habits die hard". I'm sorry.. But you should still be his friend and help him in any way possible. ok Good luck.
2006-11-09 06:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously kidding me? If you want to prove your stupidity to the world than sure, move in with the drunken sniveling snot monster street rat. Or, you could better your life by keeping your knees together for a while and move on. Find a hobby, meet friends who aren't loosers. Make something better for yourself before this low lofe scum drags you into the pit of poverty.
2006-11-09 06:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope find someone else you are still young u do not need that drama in your life.. plus imagine if he did that to her unconciously imagine what he is capabale of doing if he ever wanted to do something to someone.. no do not get back with him or u might be unhappy try to find someone that is going to value you and care for u and call u when u are thinking about that person...
2006-11-09 06:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is strange. People know what they are doing high, and drunk are just excuses. You should move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-11-09 06:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i dont think that he loves you or care about you cues he say that for him self to be beside him and do what ever he want to do with you so try to find some one really care
2006-11-09 06:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be mad about him getting high and drunk since he dosent know what hes doing if he really loves you and you want to be in a relationship with him he should stop.
2006-11-09 06:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him... we all say that we never remember... unless he is a retard (no offense to retards) then he knew what it was going on... but hey you only know if you wanna dump him or not. sometimes love is bigger.
2006-11-09 06:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋