i have been talking to a guy since june...he seemed really in to me...i serioulsy thought he would ask me to be his girlfriend..well, he hasn't...it's taking to long...i am the one that always calls him...he never calls me..i decided to ignore him for a couple of days and then maybe he would call me...and he hasn't....he wrote me a comment on myspace that said HELLO. but that's it. i feel stupid...should i take that as a hint and move on?
2006-11-09 06:30:04 · 27 answers · asked by vicky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thin kyou should move on. if he hasnt took the time to actually realize you havnt called him in three days and didnt call you to ask about it then hes not worried about you. i think you should leave him alone. dont worry about him. hes an ***! and then that message he left you on myspace...that sucked a big one!!!!!
2006-11-09 06:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by britni h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you willing to wait until he decides on asking you to be his girlfriend? You shouldn't have to always call him, he should be picking up the phone to call you too! You ignore him for a couple of days and all you get out of it is a "hello" on your myspace account, with the time and effort it took him to write out that email, he could just as easily picked up the phone and called you. If your willing to wait and you think that it's worth the wait, then do it but if not move on.
2006-11-09 06:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could move on. But if you want a relationship to work you must first open communication. How? You might ask? Well, I'll tell you. First call him up. He answers the phone. You open your mouth and ask him if he likes you and if he has plans in dating you. If he says yes, you ask him then why do you not talk to me? And If he answers anything but the words,"Being shy" then I would think he has someone else that he is intrested in. Going back to asking him if he likes you and if he has plans in dating you...If he replies anything besides yes, he is intrested in someone else and you should say, "Until you decide to get some balls, I am looking else where!" And just dump him. I hope this tid bit helps!
2006-11-09 06:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are complicated and in general people are hard to read. When it comes down to it you need to decide whether this guy is giving you everything you deserve. By the sounds of it he is either not interested OR simply nonchalant about the whole situation. My advice would be to find someone who will treat you like a queen. Life is too short to put up with BS.
2006-11-09 06:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him a comment back on myspace that says something like "hey"
If hes interested in being more than your friend, he will come around, if not then count him as a good friend and go find a boyfriend.
2006-11-09 06:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since June?! Wow. Yes, just the fact that he doesn't/hasn't called you first is a sure sign. Please move on. When he notices that you haven't called in a while and he finally calls you, just play it cool. He could be one of those individuals who loves it when women are attracted to him. Don't feel stupid, it could've been worse. Just learn from it and ove on. There's better out there for you.
2006-11-09 06:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't settle. There can be more than one reason for that: 1) he's a timid type 2) he isn't the committing type or 3) He just isn't interested. Tell him your thoughts and get it in the open. We aren't mind readers so most of us like things obvious and out in the open. ^.^
Don't settle...there are plenty of other people in this world. Best of luck! =)
2006-11-09 06:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch maybe he's just been busy.... well sorry to tell you this but it sounds like he's not really into you. Well I would start hanging out with other guys and see how he likes it then leave him comments like 'hi' or 'hey' and see what happens. Well hope this helps!
2006-11-09 06:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a waste of your time. Who cares if it's a hint or not, there's too many out there to wait around for this guy. Look for someone who knows what he wants.
2006-11-09 06:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Smith Smith 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋