I'm newly married and I totally suck on top. Seriously. I can bounce but thats about it. Any tips on how to make it better? I feel bad leaving all the work up to him...
2006-11-09 06:22:34 · 11 answers · asked by uh_huh_ok_wassup_shutup 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is to ask him what HE likes and what HE wants you to do. Anyone up here can tell you different ways to do it, but they dont know what he would prefer.
2006-11-09 06:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much of the bouncing ... it's more of the motion .. move your hips in different directions when he's inside of you .. lean all the way forward and rub up against him as hard as you can .. lean back and hold yourself up with your arms and spread your legs open ... that's a great one ... you're on top ... do what you want and do what feels good .. he's not going to complain .. play with your cl*t while you move up & down on his shaft ... turn around & play with your boobs while you bounce up & down backwards on him .. !
Have him squeeze your @ss pulling you closer and closer ... have fun with it ... if you really want to loosen up & find some new positions have a few glasses of wine and pop in a porno .. try the different positions you see the girls doing .. porn can really help couples see a different point of view on sex .. some people are just stuck in there ways .. you sound like you're willing to please your man ... don't be scared to open up compleatly and ride away while you're on top .. close your eyes and go for it - or turn the lights off and ride him like you've never rode before ... lol ... have fun .. !
2006-11-09 14:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like being on top my hubby suggested a water bed even though its hard on your back to sleep on but its really great for sex......i dont know why he said that LOL i also suck on top so i decided to try doggy style its been a wonderful posistion and really spices things up also when you try doggy style use a vibrator for the clit wow what a turn on for you and with your rear end being in the air yea its a big turn on for him. For me being on top what i try and do is like a but bounce while leaning forward and kissing if that sounds right LOL hard to explain. Good luck hope it works
2006-11-09 14:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from a guy. Quit worrying about what you think he will like. Just move in whatever way makes you feel good. He will enjoy it. Guys just want to know they made you feel good. And besides, there's no such thing as bad sex. Unless you try worry about it so much that it's not fun anymore.
2006-11-09 14:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Alan J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes it work. More you do it the better it will be. Butterfly is my favorite. Get a book or on line and discover different things. Part of the excitement is different ways to please each other. It doesn't matter who is on top it isn't like work you know.
2006-11-09 14:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember, I had the same problem, have you thought about Karma Sutra, it's really GOOD!!!! if not it's a guide of sexual positions to satisfy you both, try buying sexy underwear as well that helps the mood as well a few porno's!
2006-11-09 14:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by bullitheaduk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with Barbi on that one. It's true he will only know. But....if your scared to ask. The best thing to do is rent porn and just watch and get ideas from it. Or practice by yourself on the bed and try to think of ideas.
2006-11-09 14:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband actually likes me on top......But he still does all the work.........I lay on his chest an he wraps his arms around me........Feels pretty good and he seems to like it alot........You might give that a try........Don't feel too bad about them doing the work........Most men don't mind....
2006-11-09 14:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one girl would get on top of me in a crouch and move around in circle with me in her.. Damn, that was hot!!
2006-11-09 14:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends some like it if you go back and forth...some like it if you squat and bounce up and down...some like it if you lean back...it all depends you might want to ask him how he wants you to perform...Good Luck!
2006-11-09 14:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋