My ex and I have been splitsville for 10 months. To this day he calls everyday, text messages me 10-20 times a day just to tell me he loves me, he needs me, he wants me and he wants to go out with me. I am about to explode! I have been seriously dating another guy for 8 months and we are blissfully happy - with the exception of my ex! If I tell him to get a life and move on, he gets angry and then the harrassment just gets violent and explicet. If I try to be nice and let him down easy, he sees it as me breaking down and getting closer to wanting him back. If I ignore the messages and calls, he shows up at my doorstep! HELP!!! How can I make him see once and for all that I am DONE with him and I am never going back????
2006-11-09 06:15:45 · 14 answers · asked by babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell him that if he shows up again, you will call the cops. If you are serious about this, you need to tell him this, and if it does happen you need to do it...PERIOD!!!
You gotta make it very clear to him that you dont want him. CALL THE COPS, becuz this is borderline, STALKER!!! if you are definitely serious about this, then you need to let him know you are going to do this and if he shows up again, let him know to wait right there on the doorstep becuz you are now....CALLING THE COPS. I bet you he wont come back again and if he does, get the restraining order. Ever time he comes back, he will be put right in the jail cell and having dudes calling him honey bun and sugar stick *winking* if u know what i mean...
2006-11-09 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well change all your phone numbers, email address's, and call the cops and get a restraining order on him.
It's as easy as 1, 2 & 3.
2006-11-09 06:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block his email and block him on your phone. He'll get the message eventually. If he gets violent with you, call the authorities and get a restraining order. He is out of your life if you want him to be.
2006-11-09 06:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the law involved...get a restraining order...stop answering calls, stop replying to his messages, and do not open the door when he knocks...
By answering and replying to him, you give him hope...as long as you reply, he'll keep trying...so stop replying...block his phone number...and the next time he shows up at your tell him you are going to call the cops...if he doesn't leave, do it.
2006-11-09 06:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change you phone number and make a huge rumor that you moved somewhere else and if he comes to your doorstep then make your new boyfriend answer it to tell him to get away from you. This should work. This guy has got to get a life.GOOD LUCK
2006-11-09 06:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time you get the police involved. They can help you with the paperwork necessary to file a restraigning order. Make sure you have documented proof of this over time and witnessess.
2006-11-09 06:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by dww32720 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your attorney draw up a very stern letter telling him it's over, if that fails a restraining order will have to be drawn up and then he'll risk jail.
2006-11-09 06:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your number so he cant text you! Be careful don't answer the door if he comes over if you need to get a restraining order on him.
2006-11-09 06:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a crazy! I would say get a restraining order!!
2006-11-09 06:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get lost you are happy with your man. and say f you! im done. and if you wanna start calling me names because i dont want to be with you then get a life. you arent what i want anymore. just tell him you dont like him and if he starts calling you names then tell him to grow up and stop playing those elementary games. he is showing that he is immature and doesnt have a life. <33me
2006-11-09 06:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by p.dizzle :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋