my bf & me were goin out 4 a month he was always hangin all over chicks & i never said a word about it my friends kept tellin he was cheatin on me but i didnt believe them he comes over 2 my house but only stays 4 a bit cuz he says hes got stuf 2 do he never says what yesterday he came over & said he was about to leave then i said ok cuz my friend ray was comin over he was never going to in the first place cuz i hadnt even talked 2 him in a few days my bf hates him & so he said he was going 2 stay there till ray got there & then he was going 2 figh him well i told him after that that ray wasnt & he called me a liar & then walked out my door didnt say a word 2 me & left i only did it cuz i was sick of hearin & seein him with all them girls he always goes 2 girls house's 2 & then gets mad when i say ONE was gonna come over i didnt talk 2 him at all in school & when i got home he told me that ray said he came over & he said he wanted to break up with me cuz of it was I wrong or was he?
2006-11-09 05:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no u don need 2 be hangin wit no playa u got 2 stand up gurl 4 yo sef
I hope that translated well into your language. :)
2006-11-09 05:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have some pride girl he is a user you don't need any man like that. I am gonna go out on a limb here an say he probably thinks he is a bad boy an needs to have all those women after him and if things don't go his way he finds a reason to dump the girl at that moment without a good reason their are alot of guys like that you need to make him believe that nothing is bothering you that will kick his ego and give you a little satisfaction
2006-11-09 06:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't wrong for u to try and stop him from fightin ray. u did the right thing. and think of it this way, now u r free so u can try to find som1 who wants u and not other girls. u need to find the one for u, not some cute guy with a athletic body. i feel glad for u that u did the right thing and let him go
2006-11-09 05:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by D.Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, you were probably wrong to lie, but right to doubt him...Obviously you like him a lot, and it doesn't seem that he feels as strongly for you...It sounds like he was just looking for a reason to break up with you...It also sounds like you are a sweet person and deserve sooo much better...How old are you? I have a son...lol
ps...in control is right! being young only lasts once...I am also 31...that son that I mentioned...he is 14
2006-11-09 05:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heath took my answer!!!!
no really, I agree with Heath.. its hard to say he's a wrong doer if you do the same, use it as a learning tool and move on, he sounds like a cad any ways
2006-11-09 05:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like way to much drama for such a young girl....You should concentrate on you, and don't worry about what he is doing.
Be young
Because before you know it it's gone.
2006-11-09 05:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Abby, if you felt something was wrong in the relationship, then you should have talked to him. never lie.but if he can do things and gets mad if you do them, then it is time to let him go. i dont think he would have been any good for you.
2006-11-09 06:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by pandamanga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than confronting him on his bad behavior, you sunk to his level. leave him behind, he isn't worth your time. next time you're in a situation like this, take the high road, and don't replicate the other person's bad behavior, even if your replication is a lie
2006-11-09 05:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Heath 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he was wrong, and you were too, but you were only lookin' for someone to be there and he wasn't. I think you should sit down and talk one on one. and if he doesn't want to do that then leave him hes not worth it!
2006-11-09 05:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he waz wrong his the 1 going out with all those chicks house he is the 1 that might cheating on you move on, if you like that ray guy go out with him move on make him jealouse
2006-11-09 05:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋