Well, there is this one guy that i like, he likes me back but he also likes someone else. he said that if it doesnt work out between him and her that he would ask me out again. that was over a month ago and he says to still wait for him. should i, or should i move on?
2006-11-09 05:46:05 · 16 answers · asked by capegirl_rocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch the bugger!
He is playing his cards and holding on to you in the background as back up.
If he really liked you and wanted to get to know you he would stop seeing the other girl.
Move on.
2006-11-09 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Trudy Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that liking two people at the same time is retarted. If he's telling you to wait until it doens't work out between him and the other girl, that means that you're his second choice. If he really liked you, you would me the world and more to him. You would be above all else (except God), and he wouldn't care about anyone else the way he cared about you. So I think you should confront him and just tell him to make a choice, because you're not waiting anymore.
2006-11-09 13:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious??
He goes out with some other girl and he asks you to WAIT for him IN CASE things don't workout between them both??
you shouldn't be a rebound girl to no one. If he didnt like you enough to ask you out to begin with, then you shouldn't wait around for the girl to dump him. Move on and find someone better, watch how fast he'll come crawling back to you. Show him you can do better, s h i t, make HIM wait for YOU now.
2006-11-09 13:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont wait for him. He's probably looking to see who else he can get. You should move on and find someone who won't keep you waiting because no girl should be kept like that.
2006-11-09 13:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by green eyed chika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF??..... youre still waitng girl move on i mean why should you put your life on hold for some guy that isnt even close to bein out of the relationship....its clear hes only dragging you on so if he does break up with this chick he''ll have some rebound booty girl....suprise his as s and get you a man and when he does break up with her say this: im in a relationship right now and i really like you but maybe you can just wait till i get out of my relationship and then we can betogether. take his as s on a ride and show him how it feels to be strung along.
2006-11-09 13:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever wait on a guy! Who is he to even suggest that you wait for him to see how his other relationship works! Is he in control of you? Stop. In fact, I wouldn't date him ever again. He does not like you, or he wouldn't have asked you to wait for him.
2006-11-09 13:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Show him that you are not his mommy! Mommy sits at home and waits for him, but not you! You get out there and be with other people who won't make you sit there and wait. You are worth it! Then maybe he can sit and wait for you for a change.
2006-11-09 13:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no gurl do not wait for him because hes out with another gurl and you are not so what? are you just going to sit around and wait wile hes having fun with her "no". if he did really have feeling for you like you would be with you more than her gurl just move on and when you do hell know how it would feel!
2006-11-09 13:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa_SA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seems to be happy being second choice! thats not at all fair. he dont hav any right to make u WAIT for him. pls dear move on and forget him. i am damn sure u deserve a much better person than him.
2006-11-09 13:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by shalin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
h elllll no dont ever wait for a guy your a women i shoudl nto have to its liek your his second option tell him hit the road jack you deserve better dont answer him bc all he wil ldo is hurt you you deserve better
2006-11-09 13:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋