okayy...me and my friend both like this guy...i mean who wouldnt he is cute, sensitive, funny, sweet and he as great looks and a great body...but we have been friends for a very long time and the thing that is going around school is that he is gonna sk me out soon...i dont want to ruin our friendship but i want to be with him soooo bad....what should i do???
2006-11-09 05:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by SoCcEr ChIcKa13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your friend and be open and honest about the situation. If you feel that this guy is going to cause a problem with your friendship, then its not worth it. Good luck.
2006-11-09 05:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by PetuniaFritz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is easy sweety, it shows how good a friendship is. Lets say that the guy picks her instead of you, if you get jelouse or start to hate her or whatever than you werent a good friend to begin with and if he pick you and she begins to get jelouse or start to hate you cause you date him than she really isnt a good friend. But personally from really bad experiances just tell her look guys come and go. Most of all be honest with each other but be careful because if the guy gets the hint that both of you two like him what he might do is date you than date her and than run his mouth and that really hurts alot. Hope this helps
2006-11-09 06:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats a 2 way deal if he ask you and you really like him think.... is your friendship really woth shaking over a guy if anything you and the guy can become great friends and secretely ake out without your friend knowing or you could just totaly say no (bad idea) and hope that hedoesnt go after your friend. so if i were you i would tell everyone that you and the guy are frinds but (secretely date) behind everyones back.
2006-11-09 05:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your friend! Keep the lines of communication open. Tell her exactly how you feel. Trust me, a good friendship isn't the easiest thing to find. If your friend is true, you will get past this.
2006-11-09 05:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by SandyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin. The winner gets him first. Most hot guys in school turn out to be loosers anyway. Play with him and toss him out. it's just a school fling anyway. Its not like you are going to marry him or something. Make a game of it between you and your girlfriend. That way you don't ruin your friendship and He gets both of you. Everybody wins!
2006-11-09 05:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by traveler.3339 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a chance with him it not your fault he like you, take the chance everybody move on if it waz her i bet she might be with him, so good luck take the chance if he so sexy 4 u
if she a real friend she will understand and she move on
talk 2 her and tell her how you feel and you really like him and if he ask you out that its not your fault you still be with him( advised if u go out with make your friend stay away from himif she will try 2 get him)only if she iz a gudd friend
2006-11-09 05:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a guy problem, that's a girl problem. He likes you. so let him take you. If he wanted your friend, you'd be ok with him going for HER right? but that's too bad for your friend because he has the hots for YOU.
So, if she IS a REAL friend, she'll be happy for you that he's going for you and she'll be happy settling for the 2nd hottest, nicest, cutest guy that lives in your area.
2006-11-09 05:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does ur heart tells u to do? which is more precious.. friendship or the hot guy? hmm... sometimes, when both options are good.. and i cant decide.. i just pray to god and flip a coin.. let him do all the thinking!
2006-11-09 05:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woudl talk to your friend say look i herd that he will ask me out and i know you like him and so do i and if she gets mad at you for him asking you out and she calls you name then thats not a friend your friend shoudl be happy for you and if you dont watn to lose her then another thing you could do is nto go out with that guy and if the guy asks you out just say look ther is this girl and im friends with her i cant go out with you bc i dont want our friendship to brake but if i was you i woudl go for it if you friend dont undestand and cant be happy for you she is not a true friend trust me i been there
2006-11-09 05:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would your friend do? would she go out with him?
if you said yes. then go for it..
if you said no, then no man is worth a true friend.
if you dont know, then talk to her and be perfectly honest and open. then base your answer on that.
2006-11-09 05:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by yankeesarethechamps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋