Besides the (supposedly) celibate clergy out there. . .do you think it's possible to forego romantic relationships and still be happy in life? I'm thinking it is quite possible, but relationships seem so important to so many people--vital, even. However, it's impossible that all of us will find that special someone to fall in love with, so it seems to me that it's fine to find contentment in other areas of one's life, like careers or whatever. Other folks may think that's an unnatural way of looking at things, though. What's your take on the subject?
2006-11-09 05:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, I should have realized as soon as I posted this question, I realized I was going to get some smart*ss answers.;)
2006-11-09 05:40:01 · update #1
Absolutely. Imagine all the freedom that comes with it. You get to focus more on the stuff that matters (career, hobbies, friends, etc.). You don't have to get anyone else's approval before you do something or go somewhere. You don't have to worry about keeping someone interested in you. I intend to find contentment in my career and more without a boyfriend. In fact, I'm thinking of starting a singlehood cult on this site. Wanna join?
2006-11-09 10:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I tried it.
I am very profficient at many things with all the time I had on my hands.
I even went to hookers to releive those nasty urges that would not let me think.
It still didn't cut it. I became depressed and lonely and very inactive.
I can barely think a straight thought.
I finally changed my mind a few weeks ago.
I'm back looking.
I already feel better and have energy again.
And I haven't even met anyone.
Mind you this took 8 yrs to go that far downhill.
I did make a lot of money and have a well rounded education.
I'm hoping I'm just not too old now.
2006-11-09 05:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem that physical attraction is your "problem"; it's finding someone that you connect with on a deeper level. Oftentimes one won't find these kinds of people at the club, although one could. I'd suggest you focus on what you are passionate about: art, music, computers, career, whatever...Relationships are important, but only if you are comfortable with yourself. I think that the world in general romanticizes love to the point that people think its magic...it's not. Most of the times it is work! Enjoy growing and becoming the person you want to be
2006-11-09 05:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to lead a fulfilling life without a relationship. It is important to be in a good and healthy relationship with yourself first. It is important to understand/recognize yourself, your needs,your passions,etc.and most of all, to love yourself first. If you are not happy with the person you are, nothing can make you happy.
It is only when you are at peace with yourself, than you begin to realize the tiny bits of happiness in every little thing around you. And no, it is not unnatural to then feel fulfilled without a relationship.
2006-11-09 05:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are absolutely right. There is no need to settle for a nice guy when you dont feel deeply for him. Infact it would leave a lot of time for you to pursue your other interests & passion like you have correctly pointed out. I agree with you out & out!
There are always casual flings available if you feel the need for one!
2006-11-09 05:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I don't go out looking for relationships and am quite happy with who I am. One day somone might come along that blows my mind but untill then I am quite happy being me.
2006-11-09 05:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Deeneyboy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 13:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT'S POSSIBLE!!!
Learn to love yourself and to respect yourself and everything else will fall into place. This is something I am learning myself.
2006-11-09 05:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope that I wont be alone forever but I am so far ok being single.
2006-11-09 05:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you. If you "think" you need a "someone" in your life to make it complete, WRONG!
2006-11-09 05:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by SandyM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋