2006-11-09 05:27:52 · 34 answers · asked by Little Mark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, let me express my condolences for your loss. I lost my Mom a little over a year ago. My Dad and I decided not to have a funeral. If you're old enough not to be made to go, just tell your friends/family that you can't handle it emotionally. Grief is handled by everyone differently and at different paces. You shouldn't feel compelled to go to a funeral just because it is customary.
To everyone who is calling this person heartless, please delete your answers. I loved my Mom with all my heart. I just couldn't handle that kind of public display of grieving. I'm not comfortable around anyone in sadness except my best friend and my girlfriend. If you haven't been there (loss of a parent), you shouldn't be answering.
2006-11-09 05:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What happen to U? Aren't U feel sad not to attend your mothers funeral. This is the last time for U to see your Mom. Don't U feel regret? Why do U hate your mom so much ? She gave birth to U. Feed U. Care for U and give everything she has to U. Yet, U do not want to attend her funeral. It is very heartless for U to do that.
2006-11-09 05:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why wouldn't you want to go to moms funeral?
I mean if the relationship wasn't good, this might be a good time to make peace.other than that I don't know.
2006-11-09 05:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry, please take my condolence. I think you should really go to your moms’ funeral. She gave you life, and that's not something you can forget. And there isn't any excuse, except a quarrel with your family. That isn't nice.
And if you don want to go, that doesn’t necessarily mean you are a heartless person, it may as well mean that you were in some bad relations with your mother, and I really hope that wasn't so.
Sorry again!
2006-11-09 05:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Alexei 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why would you ask a question like that I think that it is really disrespectful. Do you think she went around and asked people should she keep you or abort you. You have some real issues that you need to get checked out.
2006-11-09 06:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by ebonikaf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wouldn't you go that's the last time you will get to see her. Yeah It will be hard but it will be even harder if you don't go.
Go, please go for whatever reason you don't wanna go I don't know but that's not for me to know, but you don't want that on your conscious that you didn't go to your mother funeral.
2006-11-09 08:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would u feel if your child didn't come to your funeral? Your disrespectful. She was a strong lady that gave birth to you. I have nothing else to say to you b/c that's just sad that ur trying to find an excuse not to go. Your a dumb *****
2006-11-09 05:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If it only a matter of you being afraid to see your mother in a casket suck it up and go! If it's a case to where you and your mother didn't get along or never knew each other that I wouldn't worry about going. If you didn't know her in life why start now at death?
2006-11-09 05:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by what can i do 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since I do not know what your situation.... That is hard to say. Normally people would say suck it up and go, but I am a firm believer that you are your own person and should make your own decisions.. Then after wards, live with your decision.....
2006-11-09 05:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. No matter what has happened in the past if you don't go you may regret it later even if it doesn't seem so now. You should go if for no other reason than she gave birth to you and didn't abort you
2006-11-09 06:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋