My GF has been going out to clubs and bars with her friends, including one guy that is intrested in her. She ahs been told to invite whoever she wants to go with them also, but has not invited me.
Tonight I am going out with my buddies to the club, where I know some promoters and he has told em that I will be spending my night with a lot of very HOT girls.
When my GF finds out about this will she be mad? Will she have a reason to be mad since she is doing this same thing?
2006-11-09 05:26:31 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, she may get mad, but who cares.....she she is doing the same thing. just go and have some fun.....good luck buddy!
2006-11-09 05:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Okay, so I am a girl, and I like attention from guys. I have a WONDERFUL boyfriend, but sometimes, it's nice to be hit on by other men, just to remind me that I still have it. So i think that she goes out to the clubs and stuff, because she wants the attention. I dont think that she is cheating on you, because you said she goes with a guy that is interested in her. Well if she were interested back, then she would probably just leave you, becaues she already had a backup plan. So if you go to the club, she will be pissed! But, it will serve her right. She will know how it feels when she does it to you. Don't invite her to go along either, just tell her you are going. yeah she will be mad, but she needs to see how it is being on your side.
2006-11-09 05:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think she has grounds to get mad at you, when she's doing the same thing to you. If she does get mad at you its because she's immature and needs to grow up a bit. If she hasn't invited you to go out with her to the club she frequents its because she doesnt want you to be there with her while she's having her fun, so tonight when you go out clubbing have a great time and don't put any mind into the whole "is she gonna be mad at me when she finds out?" deal. She has her fun, its time for you to have yours (as long as you keep away from the "very HOT girls" you mentioned.) Good Luck and if she gets mad send her a s s home, you don't need that bs.
2006-11-09 05:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as you are not doing anything wrong I wouldn't care if she got mad or not, she can't really expect to go out and not invite you and you not do the same! Tell her to get over.
And as far as she goes I think that I would look into why she never invites you!
2006-11-09 05:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by TNL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys have a screwed up relationship, but she would NOT have a right to be mad seeing as how she does the same thing. Maybe it will open her eyes and she will invite you to her outing next time.
2006-11-09 05:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No one can say whether she'll be mad or not. It depends on the kind of person she is. Sounds like you recognize the fact that you should be allowed to do whatever she does and vice versa. I do think it's a little odd that your girlfriend didn't invite you. I'd be focusing more on that than anything else...
2006-11-09 05:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you both need to grow up and learn some respect for one another! Two wrongs do NOT make a right!!
Why are either one of you in clubs and bars anyway?? Time for both of you to take some responsibility for your actions....
2006-11-09 05:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No she has no right to be mad, but you better keep the hot girls out of it when you tell her you are going out. Just say you are hanging out with the guys tonight. If she gets mad, well then that is her problem.
2006-11-09 05:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Pffffff....if she does it, why can't you?
If she get's mad, she doesn't have a right to.
Although, you go to clubs to meet new people, so maybe since you are in a relationship, niether of you should be going to them.
2006-11-09 05:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She really doesn't have the rights to be mad at you, if she is doing the same thing that you are doing.
2006-11-09 05:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by teresa l 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're trying to make her jealous.
My suggestion is for the two of you to break up because what you're doing now is nuts.
When you both grow up and stop playing games maybe you'll have a chance.
2006-11-09 05:31:23 · answer #11 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋