Why?
2006-11-09 05:21:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? I'm in the 9th Grade.
2006-11-09 05:25:39 · update #1
Try to forget about her in the meantime...if she does become single you can try making a move a few weeks after...
Or you could go my old route and get involved with her while she has her boyfriend (as long as you aren't friends with the guy)....but from my experiences this is a bad route because she will start to feel bad and ulitmately choose her boyfriend.
2006-11-09 05:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by jkennedy442 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest moving on. To use a cliche, "there are many fish in the sea." If you feel that this girl is very special to you; however, you should still move on and live your life, but keep an eye on the situation. If something would happen and she would break up with this guy, I would also suggest not moving in too quickly for various reasons: she may think you're stalking her or the break-up could have been a short-lived quarrel and the boyfriend may return but instead find you with her and a whole conflict starts. If you don't mind confilct, then nevermind. Also, if you find someone to "hold you over" be sure not to break up with them just to go out with this girl, because then she may say no and you'll be girlfriend-less. For the most part, don't wait, yet never erase her from your mind completely.
2006-11-09 05:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Matt D 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget about her.
If you did wait for her to break up, then she'll only use as a rebound. She will still be broken up from the break up and won't put in too much into your relationship, that's if she goes with you after her break up. So, I say, find another.
2006-11-09 05:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey guy, what you have to ask yourself is if the waiting is going to be worth it. In the event that you decide to wait for her to break up (if she does) what makes you so sure she will want to go steady with you? I think you should find out first and then decide if you want to wait till she decides (if she does) to break up with her actual boyfriend. In any event, if she does decide to be with you, it won't last. If it was easy enough for her to change him for you, what makes you think she won't change you for another. BE WISE and think before you cause your own "hurt". My advice is to look ahead, there might be someone around that you haven't even noticed likes you.
2006-11-09 05:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait to see if the girl you like is gonna break up with that guy. if they break up, then you can tell the girl you like her. if they will not break up, then just wait.
i have a friend, he was in the same situation as you. but he waited for 1 whole year and finally he is with the girl that he likes now.
2006-11-09 05:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by bettyxyz416 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfreind and is HAPPY lever her be why would you want to take joy from someone you care about. If he is an *** hole stand by close let her know your there and will help her thru anything and protect her. if shes truly unhappy she will fall into you arms if you make her feel safe and loved.
2006-11-09 05:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by kelly r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might want to assert purely stay chum consisting of her for now. in the journey that they split then attempt to make your flow some weeks later. in the journey that they don't look like they're breaking apart and their courting is going solid then purely settle with being friends and flow and locate yet another female. i'm confident there is yet another one.
2016-11-28 23:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing? Don't wait for this girl, go out and have fun. If she becomes available then pursue. There are more women than men in this world, go for it..but use protection.
2006-11-09 05:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Honeypai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find more information! Knowledge is power! Talk to her if you can, and find out in a friendly way about her relationship...if she is all satisfied, then that means no room for you. If she has some problems with him, then that is where you step IN!
AGAIN, if she is all happy with him, don't bother coz it wont work.
2006-11-09 05:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by applegoogle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, i know its really sux, you like the girl but you can't get her. You don't have to forget about her, just let her know you like her through your body language, hey maybe she'll dump the guy 4 u
2006-11-09 05:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋