My bf says I'm easily pleased, and that's one aspect he likes about me.
..but I'm not sure. Yes, I'm happy with lots of things, but that's because I love him, and everything we do together make me smile.
But maybe he's not seeing my gucci bags and expensive holiday plans...? I have lived a huge pampered life, and would expect the same with my future...although I can be happy with smallest event, like going to a zoo, or a reading books with good hot chocolate in my mug...
So me being shopaholich makes me "high maintenance"? Is my bf wrong thinking I'm low maintenance?
2006-11-09 04:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you two should compromise on things. Just because you like certain brands of items doens't make you high maitenance. I love my Coach purse but I also love my Walmart flip-flops. Its all about taste. If you only see yourself in Armani, versace and other well known classy brands and ONLY want those things and won't get anything other than that then perhaps you are High Maitenance but if also enjoy other things that your b/f does then you are not so high maitenance.
2006-11-09 04:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have Manolos & Prada shoes, Chloe & Balenciaga bags along with your Gucci, wearing Chopard, goes to the Spa every week, drives a Beamer, travels every 6months for a holiday, then you are definitely a high maintenance. You dont have to take extra effort to tell him you are not low maintenance because he can and will see it. It all wouldnt matter if you will learn to adjust but make sure that it wouldnt be a hindrance to your own happiness.
2006-11-09 04:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bleedingheartofagoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just wait until ya'll move in together and he;s having to pay for all your expensive demands and he's having to work two jobs just so you can dress like a model and he's getting yelled at for not being around because the two jobs he has to work to pay off all your stuff
he'll know the meaning of high maintenence then. just because a girl is easily pleased don't mean that it's cheap
2006-11-09 04:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having expensive taste does not make you high maintenance. High Maintenance is making high demands on someone else, or expecting only the best.
2006-11-09 05:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High maintenance is when a woman is always needing things like i just got to have that bag or i need that makeup and things like that and they think thats just cause he is going out with them that he should pay for it all.
2006-11-09 04:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jinxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, high maintenance would be a person that is hard to maintain. If you have to spend a lot of money on someone, if that someone is demanding and needs you to constantly bend over backwards to make them happy, that is high maintenance to me.
2006-11-09 04:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by jentenfold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+Doesn't appreciate small things
+Judges themselves and others by material pocessions.
+Fake
+Spoiled
+Bratty
+Self-centered
But your not high matience if you can appreciate the little things. We all have a few things that were expensive since everyone slurges in one area of life. For me I'm book crazy...
2006-11-09 04:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is how he sees you and there is no wrong or right if you think you are high maintaince then that is what you think.
he might think that people that like all the stuff you do are just normal everyday average people.
2006-11-09 04:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he is! I hope you will grow up one day realizing that you cannot take that way of life you are used to for granted.
2006-11-09 04:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whinney girl who is preepy and bosses people around.
2006-11-09 04:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Love, Joy, peace.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋