Well My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1yr and 1 month....I mean everything is going great besides the fact all he does all day is smoke weed and play video games.This has been like this for the last month and its starting to irrate me. We dont ever do anything like go out to the movies, or to eat,ect. Do you think I have a right to be a little upset? Or am I making to big of a deal about this?
2006-11-09 04:21:07 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy_Beautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get mad as hell. Tell him so stop smoking and get his lazy as# off of the couch and take you out somewhere. If that dont work, refuse him sex.
2006-11-09 04:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depending on how old you guys are....you shouldn't be around that anyway. He's gonna keep doing the things he likes b/c he's a guy and he'll probably make it a fuss if you bring it up to him. Have you thought about telling him what's going on and how you'd like to go out more often? Don't tell him that you're upset or else the talk could turn into yelling or a fight/breakup. Just ask him if there is anything he'd like to do besides being cooped up all night. Suggest the movies that are out right now. You have a right to be upset but you should just leave him. You'll look back thanking yourself that you did. I hope this helps. GOOD LUCK GIRLY and BE STRONG!
~BattleAngel~
2006-11-09 12:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by BattleAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there, shopped down that Ilse and it's NOT good. If he can't get off his *** now, he won't later. If he truly cares he needs to show it by spending time with you and it doesn't count if you are sitting next to him on the couch while he is playing video games. It is probably pretty hard for you right now because you saw something in the beginning, and it is turning out exactly the opposite. believe me though when i say i did the same thing. it took me two years before i threw him out on his ***. i waited because there were some good times when we first started dating, but after a while there was only resentment on my part.
2006-11-09 12:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to be upset. You do not actually have a relationship, because he is not even interacting with you. Tell him you need a boyfriend who is willing to spend time with you and share activities (besides sharing a joint) with you. If he isn't willing to get up off his lazy butt to keep a girl like you, then it's time you walk away and find a real man.
2006-11-09 12:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Smoke weed and play videogames with him.Just kidding talk to him about it and tell him it is irratating you and if he doesnt care kick him to the curve but if he do just work through it.
2006-11-09 12:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet_Carmel10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. Talk to him, tell him that you want to go out more often. If you're in a relationship it requires spending time together, if he doesnt understand maybe it's time to move on
2006-11-09 12:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Miss E 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you still with him? Sounds like he has all he wants in his weed and games... Why not go find a guy that wants to spend his time and effort with you.
2006-11-09 12:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm surprised that you guys don't go out to eat often....... ha ha ha. You are right to be a lil upset. He has an obligation as your man to take you to do stuff.
2006-11-09 12:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this bothers you now either get use to it or move on. Many women make the mistake of thinking their going to change a man, your not going to change him what you see is what you get. If I were you Id move on.
2006-11-09 12:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow sounds "great" What is so great about? Lose him. He's a loser and if you have to even ask this question, you know the answer!
2006-11-09 12:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by heidifreckles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋