He is 22 years old and i am only 16 years old. he told me he was getting married then i ran into him at a convenience store and he asks me back out!!! HELP
2006-11-09 04:16:09 · 13 answers · asked by lovinthelife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer depends on how you feel about him, and if you want him back.
From what you said, his marriage plans have apparently gone up in smoke, and now he is scrambling back to you.
If you want to mess with his head, tell him sure, but only for a few minutes, as you have met someone special, and the two of you have special plans for that evening, but thanks for asking.
You are a young woman, and you have a life ahead of you. Please do yourself a favor and do not get hooked up with a loser. You deserve much better than that.
Even if you do want him back, go ahead and tell him the above, it will cause him to get his head out of his a s s and appreciate you, before he loses you.
Darryl S.
2006-11-09 04:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for that easy score before he bites the big one. He may be testing the waters to see if you're down with being a mistress on the side he can go to when he gets tired of the old lady. I'm not saying it's a bad thing because some people are cool with that but just be carefull.
2006-11-09 04:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ignore the advances he has made towards you and move on. It is obvious that this guy has no respect for you or his fiancee, and because of that fact, he does not deserve to be in the presence of either of you. Just think about it: here is a guy who has proposed to a woman, thus creating the perception that he is in love and ready to commit. All of a sudden, and without the fiancee's knowledge/consent, the same guy that has just committed himself to another, propositions his ex--a MINOR might I add--in hopes that she will agree to go out with him. Does that sound fair? To you? To her? Of course not. He's put you in a very compromising position, and has already broken his promise to her. Do you really want to entertain someone like that?
2006-11-09 04:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As tough as it possibly is to say no, you've got to. Someone who is presumably getting married, but is still asking his ex girlfriend out is NOT someone you want to hang on to. He'll do the same thing to you that he's doing to this other woman, eventually. You're only 16, you've got so much time to find someone who truly deserves you, instead of this loser.
2006-11-09 04:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. If you know he's getting married don't go there. Your only 16 you'll have lots more men to take up your time in the coming years. Forget him and move on chick. Sounds like he's looking for trouble.
2006-11-09 04:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he is a pedophile, because he is an ADULT and you are a child.
Second of all, tell his fiance he is firstly a pedophile and secondly a cheater and a scum bag!
Stay away, stay very far away.
P.S. how old were y'all when you went out?? that's scary! 6 years difference and you are 16 and he is your EX, what were you 13 and he 19?
2006-11-09 04:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they'd desire to be saved and placed away, yet i'm curious of the only in his wallet... what's that everyone approximately? It sounds such as you have been mutually extra suitable than 3 months so why might that image be there? i think of you will desire to tell him approximately your snooping and how it bothered you with the ex's photos, I recommend how else are you going to get image out of wallet. You dont even comprehend if he's familiar with of it nonetheless be there or no longer. He could be conscious in case you're taking it out.
2016-10-21 13:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16...draw your line NOW, you don't want this guy! He's not capable of the commitment he's made to someone else, he's incapable of a commitment to ANYONE, including you. Guard your worth, my friend and stay away. That is the best treasure you can give yourself: don't look to him for showing he values you, he doesn't value his fiancee, his commitments. Look for someone who can. You're very young--saying no today will help in your quest for a worthy partner.
2006-11-09 04:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Yenelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, not only is he to old for you but hes getting married, he should not had even came at you like that, with you knowing that hes getting married. I DON'T KNOW IF HE JUST WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU, or hes looking for one last fling with you but no matter don't hang out. also maybe the relationship with the other women is not workin out. just be careful u don't need bull!@#% in your life.
2006-11-09 04:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well there is a huge age difference however its ok age is a # not an issue!!!! if i was you i would think about why you guys broke up in the first place and see if it is a good enogh reason to say no not again or you can just say no because you been through it once you dont need it twice
2006-11-09 04:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by justins_nmber_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋