he also hates chinese food and all shortss of international cuisine. he never says i m pretty, he never says he loves me, he never buys me presents. i know he loves me though. i am thinking of leaving him to find mr perfect. does he excist????
2006-11-09 04:01:35 · 21 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relationships like food and education, music preference, excercise and so many other things in life are all about need and satisfaction. those aren't the only things, but they're important.
you have to decide if you're getting what you would like from a relationship, what you're losing from the time spent and the emotional investment you're making. how much of it does he appreciate? how much is enough?
i think that if someone loves you, then it usually comes out int heir behaviour. what is love? it must be made up of loyalty, faith, a great fondness for e/o, wanting to see the other one is happy, willing to do a lot for the other and caring. if these things don't show, there are few conclusions to reach about these... he may appreciate or need you greatly or be jealous of you but love?
one day he will treat someone in a very special way, compare that to how he's treating you. I can't say whether he does or doesn't love you, but you can.
his personal taste is reasonable even though it may not be compatible. if a girl didn't like my taste in music or share my love for food and films and books or theatre then our relationship would be different. we would be compatible in a different way but it might be more difficult to associate but if the compromise is worth it, then fine! if it's not then don't waste yours or his time ...
MR PERFECT EXISTS!! I know he does! to any girl reading this, mr perfect is probably a guy who was brought up well, who loves the same things as you and has fewer bad (or less compatible) habits. I'm trying to be Mr Perfect for the right someone somewhere and I think that's the only way you're going to get somewhere. being pretty and nice and moderately reasonable is a good start!
whatever you do, I hope you have fun and you find the best things that suit you quickly and enjoy them for a looong time!
2006-11-12 13:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have few thing in common so both can enjoy the life together as long as it lasts.
Some people are slick they play around and say thing, and know what to say without meaning .....Other are reliable and solid, but lack certain skills.
You know the situation well so it has to be your informed decision. Life is give and take and it cannot be any thing less in this case.
2006-11-09 12:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really loved you he would make some type of exceptions to go out with you.
We are never going to find "Mr./Mrs. Right", but close enough u know. Dont make excuses for him and dont say u know he loves u. Cause in reality we dont know- especially the way he is.. no i love u, ur beautyfulno I was thinking of you gifts... u feel me?
2006-11-09 12:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by jrzy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he hates those things and you like those things, then are you willing to sacrifice? Dont you want to go grab some chinese food with your guy? AND dont assume he loves you if he's never said it. If he loves you, he would say it. He never buys you presents? That sucks! you deserve better. move on.
2006-11-09 12:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mr. Perfect doesn't exist, but if he isn't doing anything to make you happy, then maybe you should talk to him and see if he improves. If he doesn't work on it or at least make efforts, then maybe you should leave him for someone that's willing to do a couple of those things you like. But if you're sure your guy loves you, just tell him what you want and then be willing to compromise.
2006-11-09 12:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is nothing likeperfect..
at first u might think that a person is ur mr/ms perfect but with time u find that itt is not so..but if loves u then dont think of leaving him,,
try to talk to him about it and find out the solution.
2006-11-09 15:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gaurav A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KIND OF CARE AND OVERTURES THAT YOU EXPECT FROM YOUR BF IS QUITE NORMAL...YOU SEEMS TO HAVE A RARE MAN ...NOW ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE AND FIND OUT DOES HE REALLY LOVES YOU VERY MUCH AND JUST THAT DON'T KNOW HOW SHOW IT IN YOUR STYLE...THERE MAY BE A PERFECT MAN IN YOUR TERMS AND REQUIREMENTS BUT WOULD HIS LOVE BE GENUINE TOO...NO GUARANTEE..SO YOU ARE THE BEST JUDGE IN THIS..ALL THE BEST
2006-11-10 03:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sraight up honey what are you doing with him you seem to have a lot to say about him and you know what you need from a guy and he sure does not have does qualities so move on and find your mate his a sesonal thing find your eternal.
2006-11-09 12:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may want to find someone you have more in common with. You can't change him.
Being single isn't so bad either. I'm enjoying it right now. I just date a little. I'm sure the right guy is out there!
2006-11-09 12:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no perfect other, because that perfect person is different everyones mind. Become your own idea of a perfect person.
But I do suggest you drop this guy for both you sakes, esp. his. It will only lead to heartache and misery for you both. And grow up. Be a realist.
2006-11-09 12:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋