i love my mom very much, my dad and her are seperated and i live w/ her?

Question

i am so much afraid of death. do you believe in fate? why do i have to live with the suffer of the potential loss of my favourite people?

Answer 1

I am sure you will stay close to your father no matter what the physical distances might be, for you love him so much and so does he.

Sometimes divorce is the best answer when two people cannot get along enough to stay together peacefully or lovingly. But that doesn't that they do not love you any less, or that they would not anything for you as they did before.

So stay put in that place in you where you still know that they love you irrevocably, and yes you have their love forever, already, no doubt about that.

Answer 2

you're not alone really. even though i've no real reason to i also feel the same. i believe in fate but i also believe in personal choice. we can choose things that will decide our fate and our fate might change depending on what and when we choose what we think and do.

you have to live with the suffering of being fearful for potentially losing your favourite people. that is a sign that hey are dear to you and that you love them so much. . have you had any dreams (or nightmare's) abou tit? feeling these emotions and thoughts is natural. it's nature's way of preparing you for the scenario if the worst was to happen, just let nature do it's thing but control it if it gets too much!

...because you also have to be positive. they are all with you , you can see and visit them and tell them lots of things and you can do anything that it's possiblefor you to do to let them know that you love them and that you're growing up well.

have fun as much as you can, spend time with them. I hope that this will help your fears and do something for your hopes and values too!

Answer 3

Oh dear, what a dilemma you have. You do not give your age but I would guess you are a teenager. There is nothing to be afraid of when thinking that you may lose your most precious friends. At the end of the day you have to remember all the good things that have happened. Those memories are what get you through when the inevitable happens. Remember, life is short so enjoy it. Although your Mum and Dad are separated they both still love you, so enjoy them. As sure as eggs are eggs we are all going to die one day. So enjoy what we have been given. Carry on loving both your parents and put these unfounded worries to the back of your mind. Enjoy life and help other people enjoy their lives too.
Buck up and think positive. Mum and Dad will always be in your heart.

Answer 4

Hope this helps.

Think of it as inevitable. It is not in your hand.

But you can be sure that to day people in USA live to a rip age of 76 for man and 88 for female. The world over the mortality rate is droping longitivity is improving and people are living longer.

This means that under normal conditions the people you love will be with you for long time to come.

If you believe in prayer or even positive thinking, just prey or think positive.

If you can think of any other things that can tell you why you worry so much and think so much about it then please do ask more Q?, if I see it,and can, then I will try and give you some suitable answer.

Answer 5

hi,
actually what Ur undergoing is very crucial moment in Ur life. but i can only tell u that time heels every thing god won't let u bear this through out Ur life time there will changes i Ur life u may realise Ur reason for living death is not a solution for Ur loved ones to stay together see how u can work on this there is always a solution if we sort it step by step so never give up.Ur love may be the ultimatum for their re-union. so luv them and god will take care of Ur family. believe Ur thoughts u all will remain/ stay together under one roof.
take care.

Answer 6

Don't be afraid of death, which is natural phenomena in life. Why do you have to suffer on the potential could be reviewed on actual facts relating to only.

Answer 7

Death is as natural as birth. Don't scare, but take it graciously. Every person suffers from loss of near and dear ones. The pain is greater when someone we love dearly passes away. Don't worry. Take life as it comes. Calmly and confidently.

Answer 8

Your parents feel that live would be better from being seperated. I think its good for them this will help them to recover who they are. I understand it would be hard no you cuz you have grown up with both your parents together; but as time goes it will all get better and you will understand that they have made a good decision. Don't think that their seperation is because of you. Have a positive mind and enjoy both your parents. God bless.

Answer 9

It is very unfortunate that you have to live away from one of your parents. however look at it this way, imagin you once had a very good friend but after a few years of knowing her you realized that you do not get along wiht her. may be her habbits are bad or she is not kind or she doesnt understand you. the problem could be anything. but lets just assume she always insults you or hurts your feelings. will you like to be her friend any more? i am sure you wont. now imagin how will you feel if your parents or other people around you force you to stay with her only even though you dont like it at all? wont you feel bad? dont you think you have a right to deciede whom to make friends with? if you have that right then so do your parents. please try to understand this. there was a time when your parents were good friends and decieded to get married but after some time they realized that they annot stay with each other. we cannot blam them for this. they to are human beings and can make mistakes. i know it feels bad, specially bcoz other childern have both their parents but you have to live wiht only one but plz try to understand your parent's problem. dont force them to stay together only bcoz it will make you happy. be in touch with both of them.
as for being scared of death, i can asure you that there is not a single person on earth who is'nt scared of death. only dont think bout it. you are young and have a long life to live.

Answer 10

Do not loose heart. These are all temporary situations.
Sufferings are experience to a better future.
Begin with love all (life is also like game) help all and be happy always.