My girlfriend has confided that she wants a black male stripper for her birthday. She said that if I got her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch his big package if I agree. If not, she would just look. Should she get it out of her system? She IS a faithful woman and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 25 this year and would like to do one crazy thing before we marry. I have had much more sexual experience than her and she thinks this would even the playing field, so that she has no regrets when she settles down. Rather than sneak around, she wants my blessing. Its just a stripper. Should I agree?
2006-11-09 03:46:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Wow yall seem really conservative. I mean the whole thing about considering it wild to see a black man naked is just strange to me. Also I can't understand why she would even want you there. This is the sort of thing that most women only do with their girlfriends.
It sounds to me like she is begging. She says she will attack you shortly after the performance. But what if she isn't turned on by the stripper? There is the possibility that she wont even find a stripper attractive. After all, a man who shows his body to strangers for a living is really not a prize catch (same as a female stripper). And, believe it or not, all black men do not have the same amount of sex appeal (just like members of every other race).
I honestly don't think this is a big deal at all and usually people don't discuss their bachelor and bachelorette party plans with their spouse-to-be.
2006-11-09 07:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by ÜFÖ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she want to even the score with you just because you've had other sexual partners prior to dating her (or were those partners while you were with her)?
Either way, I think that her reasons for wanting the stripper are wrong and hence, I wouldn't agree with it. If it were simply a fantasy and no revenge motive was involved, I wouldn't see a problem with it. I hope you two go to marriage counseling before you get married and best of luck to the both of you.
2006-11-09 03:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Carlover29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her then go ahead. There is not difference between you seeing a stripper and her. Most strippers you can not touch any way and come to parties with security. I would not worry let her have fun and just think about how hot she would look in the maid outfit. Not that I know what she looks like but that could be fun for you and her.
2006-11-09 03:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's kind of strange that she wants you to be there when this happens... you'll probably never look at her the same way again after you watch her touch or even look at another man's package. I would suggest she go to a male review with her girlfriends or something and leave you out of this.
P.s. If I were you I'd ask for something bigger than her just dressing up like a maid. That's kind of a sucky exchange and you will always feel like you got bootlegged in this situation.
2006-11-09 03:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
u have to give her ur blessing cuz u dont want to regret it later cuz she is gonna do it sooner or later so make her fantasy come true while ur there and u said that u believe on her she is faithful
dont let her touch anything no package no sh*t ok
so u have to agree
2006-11-09 04:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by redscorpionhot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that she decided to include you in this and tell you, rather than just go ahead and do it means something...
I would not only trust her, I would let her have whatever fun she wanted. and enjoy yours as well because as honest as it is, it is still asking a lot of a man!
Really... the only way for you to be able to process it would be for you to do something equally as strange with maybe an Asian chick or something? I know a girl that can shoot Ping pong balls and grapes out of her grotto if you're interested?
2006-11-09 03:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
U would be crazy if u accept.....she is gonna fantasize about that guy and have fun with U....probably urz is too small for her for fun or u not given her the fun she wants. NO DONT get that stripper.
2006-11-09 03:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, its a fair request besides if you don't chances are her girls will just hire one for her stagette. And at least you get the benefits after. No harm in that not like she wants to cheat on you. be grateful that she is at least asking you, another sign of trust. go get your freak on ha ha.
2006-11-09 04:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! This seems like a fairly "safe" adventure both physically and emotionally for you both. It could be a good show of trust and love that will make your married sex life even better.
2006-11-09 03:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You call that faithful.....? Well, OK, it's about as faithful as would be you grabbing a girl's a*ss or something like that, only that your girl wants to feel his big bulging c*ock. Think about it for a moment, man.
Oh, and by the way, how cn another man turning your girl on before she "attacks" you be to YOUR benefit....? How....? She was turned on by someone else!!!
2006-11-09 03:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋