My girlfriend has confided that she wants a black male stripper for her birthday. She said that if I got her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch his big package if I agree. If not, she would just look. Should she get it out of her system? She IS a faithful woman and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 25 this year and would like to do one crazy thing before we marry. I have had much more sexual experience than her and she thinks this would even the playing field, so that she has no regrets when she settles down. Rather than sneak around, she wants my blessing. Its just a stripper. Should I agree?
2006-11-09 03:44:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, why not. Will you be there just in case she gets other ideas?
2006-11-09 03:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your partner have a safe solid relationship, you should be very honored and it seems you are. She has been very honest with you and some partners would do as you said and go behind your back.
You need to listen to what your hearts telling you here really. She doesn't want to get sexual with this person, just wants to live out a fantasy and I think if you have a strong relationship living out the odd fantasy isn't a problem... No one can really tell you what to do in this situation you must decide... I think if my bf wanted to book a stripper so that he could watch (but not touch, I wouldn't like that) but then channel his turn on purely to me then I would allow this to happen.
It is just a stripper she's not asked you to watch her be physical with him and you could end up with a mid blowing night in every department :-0
2006-11-09 03:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ja! Her fantasy is a stripper and yours is her dressing like a maid? Sorry, but she really is a smart girl because her fantasy is much better than yours! And one more thing: you said that she is very open to you but she never wear a custom like a maid before? Are you sure that you are the one who had much more sexual experience? mmmm I don't think so...
2006-11-09 03:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have to decide..Do you really need her to touch this stripper?..I don't think you do otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for our advice..You want someone to say it's alright so you will feel better but we aren't the ones asking to do this ...You decide and I know that no amount of sex can make up for seeing the woman you love touch another man...Think about it
2006-11-09 03:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why? because if you do you will always have it in the back of you mind!And she will to?if u know what i mean-if she is secretly turned on by it , oh well.......do not let her do it, and if she does it any way shes a ho.........the only real reason these girls fantasize over black guys is to see if the rumor is true-if she does, she will only be looking at one body part all night!!!!!!!!!and if you werent around she would be all over dude!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 03:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The whole little story you are telling doesn't make enough sense. No one is going to believe your tale about very experienced you and big packages and marrying. Try another story and maybe put it under HUMOR.
2006-11-09 03:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her what she want is a traps. I see that you,ll play you,ll paids the prices. LOOK THE OLD SAYING ONCE YOU GO BLACK YOU NEVER GO BACK. WHY DON,T YOU BUY HER A 4 FOOT DILDO,PUT YOUR NAME ON IT LET HER ENJOY!, MAKE SURE IT BLACK THEY SEEM LONGER.
2006-11-10 04:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if this stripper pulls out a 12inch Dong....."oh.....sweetie, can I let him do me....before we get married" What are you going to do then wussy?
2006-11-09 03:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not?Cous if yo don let her to do it,she will always have it in mind to do something crazy and it would be much worse after marrieg and without telling yo.So if you know that it won't bother you,and she really wants it,so let her be it;)
2006-11-09 04:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Hey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know me and my husband don't touch other peoples no-no special spots.Even when we was dating.But then again he turned me on I didn't need another man to do it for him.But its your life what ever floats your boat.
2006-11-09 03:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋