2006-11-09 03:41:41 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were right to dump him and wrong to bet up the girl. Steer clear of him he will cheat on you again!
2006-11-09 03:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did the right thing by dumping him - he cheated on you. If you get back with him, whose to say he wont do it again? You will have a hard time trusting him. I know its hard (from experience) but you just have to let go and let God. Dont look back, someone better is out there for you. If the girl knew about you, then beating her *** was the right thing to do. Otherwise, she's probably feeling the same way you are. Treat yourself to a pedicure, have a pint of ice cream, put some cucumbers on your eyes and take nap, go to the gym and work on your body so the next time you see him he'll be wishing he never even talked to that other chick. Take care!
2006-11-09 03:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beating someone up is always the wrong answer. Dumping a cheater is always the right thing. Missing him is sign that you haven't got the message clearly enough - he's not worth it!! If he's cheating he doesn't care about you and you better realize that or you're in for a life of being treated like crap by guys who will gladly indulge a girl with low self-esteem. Reconsider your actions - violence is applauded by many people on this board - but it's wrong.
2006-11-09 03:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Essmi d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Violence never solved anything
Say what.
I have an apple. i have a banna
i dont like the banna but i love the apple
i beat and chop up the apple
Thats what youve done.
Beating up the cheater's girl was not the thing i would do. infact i would never do such a thing. i bet you punched the boy you dated before, "the cheater" i would hate to out with someone as violent as you,
Will you do that to the next person that cheats on you?
Will you be in love the next day if your next lover heard about this?
2006-11-09 03:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Connor H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - it was not the right thing - but your boyfriend is probably relieved he found out about your way of dealing with things before things went too far.
Perhaps you are best without each other - he cheats and you behave like a thug.
May you both find the partners in life you so richly deserve.
2006-11-09 03:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mark T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u did the right thing except beating up the girl she probably didnt even know... but anyways for the next couple of weeks you are going to miss him a lot AND if you go back with him you are only letting him know is OK to cheat cause you will get over it ..... but if you wait it out in a few weeks you will be over HIM!!!
2006-11-09 03:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by sweet lady 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no/yes. no you did the wrong thing by fighting the girl. yes for dumping him.if he cheated on u more than likely he would do it again. if he had issues with you about the relationship he should have come to u about it. i have learn that (with experience) that giving anther chance things wi;; go good for a while but eventually he may cheat again or u may cheat on him for cheating on u (because u still will not fully trust him).
2006-11-09 03:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by 2b-nice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by dumping him
you were wrong by beating up the girl, the lyre is him, not her
You better move on, couse if you come back with him, he WILL CHEAT AGAIN.
Once a cheater, always a cheater
2006-11-09 03:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by gone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that but the only diffrence is I beat the sh*t out of him as well, and I do not regret it, if I have to do it over, I would have just walked away this time, its not worth the waste of time, and you would be the better person next time if there is a next time hopefully not but you will just look the other way like who cares it does not bother you, your more mature then that and to lower yourself to them not worth it either. In a way it was right cause you got revenge, but in another sense no cause you just lowered yourself to them, and for what to now your wondering if you did the right thing? Sorry girl but in my eyes I learnt from my mistakes and no it was not the right thing, you should have just walked away been the better person!
2006-11-09 03:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have a real problem my friend. The only thing you did right was dump him. Get over him and find someone that will want you only.
2006-11-09 03:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋