What kind of job can she get? I support her to stay home. I like her thin, she wanted to lose more weight and I encouraged her so she went from 95 to 86 pounds.
All she does is sit around the apartment and chains smoke. I support her. She talks about working but I don't think she can do much. She couldn't make it through the mall the other day complaining her legs hurt and she was breathing hard.
Is there something she can work at from home? We can use the cash. Plus I like her home to clean my apartment, laundry and cook for me and to please me when I need it.
2006-11-09 03:35:44 · 22 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are either lying, or you are one F**ked up individual.
2006-11-09 03:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Wanting your girlfriend to lose weight, when she was already thin enough? Now you want her to work at home plus clean, cook and do laundry? You better get her to a doctor and have her checked and you need to have your brain looked at, cause it doesn't seem to be working right!
2006-11-09 11:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I'm sooo angry reading this...you're a selfish , control freaking a**hole that is treating his g/f like crap! How tall is she? omg ...86 lbs would only be healthy is she were about 4'8"...Healthy weights are as such...5 feet tall, @100 lbs, for every inch taller , add 5-8 lbs...so if she's 5'2", she should weigh between 110- and 116...dear God, does she even have her period anymore? is her skin and hair gross? If she cant walk through the mall...HELLO!? BIG , HUGE WARNING SIGN THAT HER HEALTH IS IN DANGER!!! Doesnt sound to me like you want a g/f...you want an anorexic housekeeper/whore...she needs to kick your a*s to the curb ...QUICKLY!!
2006-11-09 11:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As if 95 lbs is fat. She's probubly balemic because of your selfish "encouraging". She isnt your maid. If you want someone to wait on you hand and foot either move back in with your mom or hire a maid. That or pay the poor girl to do the work for your lazy ***.
2006-11-09 11:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by LC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, thin is one thing, but this is not good. What you need to do is let the poor girl eat and get her a counselor. Maybe if she's better taken care of she can make it around the mall and get a job there.
2006-11-09 11:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not be for real. This girl is going to get sick, and may die. Don't you know any better? I can not believe that you would think, her being 86 pounds is healthy, She need a doctor, and you need another kind of a doctor. Please get help for the both of you!
2006-11-09 11:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your gf 12? That weight doesn't sound healthy. Good luck with the job hunt if she can't walk through the mall.
2006-11-09 11:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by akb962491 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well look on the internet for jobs, seeing you want her to stay home I was gonna suggest a sit down job like at a call center or something like that but there are many jobs on the internet I am sure she or you can at least find one, and maybe you should go out and get a job and help support you both.
2006-11-09 11:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you prefer her thin and want her to avail herself to satisfy your domestic and primal needs then it's better she not join the work force...More income means more food and less time for her to be at home for your needs...You could make More money to support her habits...You should be happy with what you have...if she desires to please you and only you and puts herself at risk to keep you happy, you should have no complaints...
2006-11-09 11:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pair of mentally ill people She is anorexic and you are her enabler and supporter. She is going to die if you both continue on this destructive course. I hope that someone intervenes to get her some help with her anorexia and you with your control issues.
2006-11-09 11:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
86 pounds.. why stop there..why dont you let her get down to about 45 pounds..I say thats ideal for someone who stays home..maybe then she will get a job...yeah right..
you need to grown up man...
2006-11-09 11:42:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋