And it's not for sex, but I've had 3 different gf who get bothered if they are sleeping and you stay up and watch tv or play a game. It's BS. At what age do you women start chillin out and realizing if a guy can still love you and not be up your rear-end.
2006-11-09 03:26:16 · 30 answers · asked by ~MB~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THEY ARE SCARED OF THE DARK!@!1
2006-11-09 03:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just depends on the woman. I don't mind if my fiance doesn't go to bed with me at the same time, just as long as he does not wake me up when he does go to bed! Lol. It's just for a feeling of closeness. Some women like physical closeness, such as holding hands, having your arm around her, etc. Or it could make her feel protected and wanted, in the way that you want to be near her and share closeness, without her asking you. The again, maybe she lacks some self esteem and has to have you right there with her at all times. Some women are more needy in the closeness department. Maybe their last boyfriend wasn't affectionate that way. People need a certain number of physical contacts during their day to keep them well rounded and happier. We're just affectionate creatures. :)
2006-11-09 11:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live in an alternate universe, it's not bs. Women do this because they want your attention and if a woman is honest that is never going to be different. I don't think it is going to be the woman who's age you are waiting on; I think it's yours. I think when you are in the right kind of relationship that you won't mind coming to bed with your woman.
2006-11-09 11:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by akb962491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha!! Sometimes never, but to be honest with you I love it if I can go to bed before my husband!! I get a few ZZZZ's in stretched out in the whole bed and don't have to listen to him snoring for a little while!! :-)
But in all honesty, when I want him to come to the bed at the same time, it's because I want something!! Maybe you just need to wear them out so they are so exhausted they can't help but pass out and then you can play all the video games and watch all the tv you want!! :-)
Good luck!!
2006-11-09 11:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women want to be held until they fall asleep a least i do after that you can watch all the TV and play any video game u want. women chill out when they have matured. unfortunately there is no age limit for a mature woman, but my guess would be when they reach 30 or 40
2006-11-09 11:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never get it! Some women are just needy like that! Some are just comfortable in knowing that you don't have to have your man sniffing your behind all the time! So just tell them and see if they understand enough to realize that guys need to have that sportscenter time and XBOX time alone! And she could benefit from having the oxygen channel as well as Lifetime!
2006-11-09 11:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by KimmeD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though it is a severe case of insecurity. I cannot answer when they will become mature! I personally, have never had this issue. Perhaps a key here would be to look for a woman who is much more secure within herself. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-09 11:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny my husband gets mad when i go to bed without him. Never could understand why. I go anyway let him stay up and watch TV it don't bother me.
Maybe you could just lay down with her for a bit then get back up.
2006-11-09 11:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's because I like ,really like curling up against my man's warm back, and drifting off to sleep. You feel so secure. I actually get kind of dependant on I can't get to sleep until he comes to bed.
2006-11-09 11:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure its not for sex? Most women arent going to come out and say they want sex. I know I personally always want to go to bed when my bf does, for this very reason. I am not going to initiate anything, but i want the option to be open i guess if he wants it. Sounds dumb but its true. She probably wants you to initiate more.
2006-11-09 11:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a cuddle thing. Maybe you could ask her if you could hold her until she falls asleep, then quietly go do what you want. If she still baulks, she is a control freak and you need to nip that in the bud.
2006-11-09 11:29:36 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋