Recently my boyfriend went away for one nite to england wit his friends to a nightclub! the next day wen i came out to him i seen a mgs in his fone to another girl who is from england and was at the club. He was basically just chattin with her casually in the mgs but he got real angry wen i asked him about her and has got a cheating past! I also heard wen dey were over there he wasnt seen by anyone for 2 hours. He says he loves me and he'd never do that but i just dont know! did he cheat???
2006-11-09 03:20:16 · 39 answers · asked by dubgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chuck it lady,move on n ya he did cheat on you with a casual fling.
2006-11-09 03:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you in the past then he will always cheat on you. You should have dumped him the 1st time around. No offense, but as a man, I hear so many stories about how foolish women are. They believe evrything men tell them because they think with their hearts (not a bad thing) rather than with their brains. You need to detach yourself from the situation and pretend that you logged onto Yahoo Answers and some girl feels like her b/f cheated ssince he cheated before. What do you answer her? Do the logical thing. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-09 03:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by marathon688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest with you… if you don't stop jumping the gun, you there will be no one left who will want to date you. That's the truth, upfront and honest.
So he disappeared for two hours… big freakin' deal. It's not like he left for four years, married another woman, dropped two kids like a bad habit, and THEN got caught with his 16 year old babysitter. Really, how old are you to think that a two hour no-call means he's fooling around with someone.
Here's another newsflash. His cheating past… it's all made up. If you know about it (so you're spelling out to us), it's not true. No true player would EVER tell you about ALL THE GIRLS he's been with, the things he's done, places he's traveled. You will have found all that out in the bedroom. That being said, i really don't even think you're sleeping with the dude… another rude awakening, so he can't be cheating on you, pure and simple.
So he got a message from another girl. Damn, if my girlfriend saw all the emails and messages i received on a daily basis, and if she were like you, i would have been out of this a long time ago. People talk to people in the real world. And sometimes, those people are cute. Face reality!
But i already know i've hit on a nerve. Here's another biter… you still worry about the first time you fooled around with someone behind your then b/f back. The only reason why someone would be SO CONCERNED about a text message from another girl would be if that were YOUR modus operandi. So, tell me about your past relationships and whom you cheated on. Maybe you need to have a talk with your NOW b/f about that.
The only i can tell you is you really need to chill out with the whole paranoia thing. Worry about more important things, like the war in Iraq, world peace, the environment.
The things is, your still young… if you allow paranoia to screw up your relationships now, you would have any relationships when your older. Live it, learn it, love it.
Wish you luck!
2006-11-09 03:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...he has the right to be angry, you checked his mobile.
But I don't ever trust a guy who has cheating past.
Apologize to him how you've checked his phone, and would never do that again, but at the same time be strong and ask him if she's just a friend and nothing more.
Say that you won't mind if he slept with her, cuz you know that he loves you, and it was just an one night thing if he'd done it...
and see how he react.
Dump him if he had, cheated on you.
I think mostly, you could guess from the guy's looks if he had cheated or not.
2006-11-09 03:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been through 10 years of a cheating husband and his exact words to me were that I love you and would never in my entire life even think about cheating on me. I believed him for many years and not until i got smart and started following him that i caught him in bed with someone else did i realized that he was a LIAR. your boyfriend may be telling the truth but i would watch every thing that he does until i know for sure. But I would say YES for now if he really loves you then he wouldnt be talking to someone else
2006-11-09 03:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by ruth b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two hours is a long time for him to go missing isnt it if hes got a past and ya not sure if he did just listen to ya heart not ya head and go with that otherwise ya gotta give him the benifit of the doubt i mean if noone seen him cheat than sorry to say honey but you aint got no proof not that ya need any to leave of course
2006-11-09 03:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a cheating past then once a cheater, always a cheater!
If you have serious doubts, then it might be time to rethink the relationship. Talk to him about it, and if he gets to defensive for no reason, then he is more than likely hiding something.
Good luck hun!
2006-11-09 03:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know if he is cheating or not. now its up to you to make the next move. you are in control of your own life. so if you leave him you don't owe anyone an explanation, and i am sure you can find anyone better. so use your head, don't always use your heart because it can mislead you. just make your next step and let the chips fall where they may.
2006-11-09 03:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by hardjesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're english is terrible. Hopefully, he did cheat on you, because by the sound of the way you talk, it would be a living nightmare to know someone like you.
2006-11-09 03:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the msg right?? The phone number should also be there. Copy down the phone number and give her a call and find out. How you spin it is up to you.
2006-11-09 03:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering his past, you are right to be suspicious. He would not get angry if the calls were innocent. Dump him before he cheats again!
2006-11-09 03:22:26 · answer #11 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋