I have problem.?

Question

I have problem in my school.I fancy a girl called philippa when she heard this she is not talking to me.Help me by giving advice and by
giving what i want to do.

Answer 1

it sounds as tho she is not interested in you ...the best thing you can do is back off because you can not force someone to be attracted to you when they arent...good luck

Answer 2

Perhaps she is just shy and doesn't know how to handle the situation so it's easier to avoid you. It hasn't helped you or her that she found out from someone else. It would be much better for you to approach her sometime soon and tell her yourself that you like her, listing all the reasons for this. She will feel flattered and admired and all us girlies need that!!! Ask if she would care to go out with you on a date. Plan to take her somewhere you could have a great laugh and talk and get to know each other rather than the cinema. If she says yes, that's great! If she declines, then at least you've told her to her face how you feel and she's bound to respect you for that! Infact it will make you more attractive to her because it shows maturity and young girls like that in boys! Good luck in your quest for Phillipa!!

Answer 3

Maybe she doesn't feel the same or she's not sure if she wants to like you back. Just go up to her and start a conversation with her and be sure to ask why she isn't speaking to you n e more. Tell her u didn't mean to scare her if you did but you just have a crush on her and ur hoping she feels the same. Trust me, if you play ur cards right...you'll get her no matter what. Just be a sweetheart...give her hugs if she wants them and help her feel better when she's not feeling too good. Really, right now just try to be a good friend and see where things lead you.

Answer 4

Your whole question mentions I, I, my, I, me, me, I.

There is apparently something about you Philippa does not like.
Could she perhaps perceive you to be a self centered , self serving person?

What is your take on that assumption, and if it is correct, what steps do you see yourself taking in striving for self improvement, and perhaps resolving any issue with Philippa?

Darryl S.

Answer 5

Act like you dont fancy her anymore. Ignore her back, she'll notice. It will eat her up. She'll talk to you. If not, its not meant to be. Fancy someone else. oooo... ignore her and pay a lot of attention to another girl.. (maybe a close friend so that she can play along)... girls always want a guy who another girl wants.

Answer 6

Is she the only girl in the school, if not search for a better Philippa. so may girls must be in love with you.

Answer 7

She's probably shy and embarrassed. Try a gentle yet firm approach, letting her know it's OK and she'll probably come around. If she's unapproachable, try passing her a note. Girls react in strange ways; when they're actually flattered they sometimes withdraw and act pissed. Don't be fooled; keep trying until either you win her or she makes it definitely clear that she's not interested.

Answer 8

Well...give it time. If you do nice things in front of her and if she sees that you are kind and caring, she will come around. But, don't forget that you have to be a smooth talker. Women don't like a man who fumbles his word. Be confident.

Answer 9

Speak to her on her own and ask if you have offended her., it may be a bit awkward ,but is she does not fancy you then maybe you could be friends, and then move on

Answer 10

Well now she knows you like her and IF she likes you back then she prolly will act like she dont like you and play hard to get.. but if she dont like you then maybe shes a little freaked out about it..!