there's this guy that i like but i'm not sure if he likes me. we used to spend a lot of time together talking and we were very close. He was chosen to go to Uganda for a school volleyball tournament and my best friend was also chosen for the girls volleyball team. my friend new before they left for Uganda that i liked him, but ever since he came back he's been very distant and we don't talk anymore but him and my best friend seem to be very cosey lately and he called her and asked her out yesterday but she says it was a joke him and his friends were playing on her but she gave him a kiss on the cheek today. SO SHOULD I BE WORRIED?
2006-11-09 03:13:20 · 15 answers · asked by tomboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but then there are a lot of fish in the sea
2006-11-09 03:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mark V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is like that old saying.."You snooze, You loose." I am afraid that your chance might have come and past. Did you give him any clues that you liked him more than a friend? I know you are the girl and the guy should ask the girl out but, in this day and age girls often take the intiative and ask the guy out. The fact that he has become distant towards you is also a sign that he is no longer interested in you. What to do? What to do? Well I think you should ask your girlfriend what is up with them? Did your girlfriend know that you like this guy more than just a friend? If she did then she is not much of a friend. Find out if they are going out. If they are not then you have to move quickly but, if they are going out then out of respect for both your friends let their relationship run its course. You might have a chance at a later date. Sometimes God gives people second chances. I hope this helps. Next time and there will be a next time just go for it. Let the guy know you are interested don't wait for it. Take care and good luck.
2006-11-09 03:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by MightyRighty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tomboy, I think the deal was finally struck in Uganda. I suggest you look for another guy to establish a new relationship with. Otherwise, you'll only give yourself more heart troubles than you can cope with if you have to continually wait on this boy. Your friend had played a fast one on you. The ealier you realized that the better for you to move forward. Cheers!
2006-11-09 03:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be feeling out of the loop right now because you don't know what happened in uganda and you want to find out if things are going on between them?
as obvious as it is to those that are not involved, they have something going on, and couldn't tell you because they fear of hurting you.
i have been in that situation, and all i did was left them alone. kept my self busy. find another person to pour my attention to. but it doesn't mean that you do not remain friends with them. if they want you as a friend, then they will do their best to keep you. you shouldn't have to work for any of their friendship since it's their fault. however, it will hurt once you see them together and your best friend would be telling you stuffs that they've been doing. good luck!
2006-11-09 03:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ask him where you stand? If he is not interested, then just find your self some new friends. You can be friends with your girlfriend, but I would tell her that you was disappointed in her. don't play his games, move on in your life!
2006-11-09 03:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid whore, just another case of getting him before you do.
No should not be worried, you are not worth his time anyway just ditch him and your friend at the same time.
Don't fight for the guy who didn't notice you, just find the one who will appreciate you from the first time you met him
2006-11-09 03:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, dont be worried just ask the 2 of them when they are in your presence what is the deal with their friendship is it more or what? be upfront a kiss is a kiss gl
2006-11-09 03:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should. Unfortunently girls are the most sneaky manipulative little s.h.i.t.s. in the world! lol! She is into him deffinently and yes they are probably being all mushy behind your back.
2006-11-09 03:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very worried girl.
Your friend aint a friend if you catch my drift.
I'd have it out with them both
2006-11-09 03:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by spunkybadger69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not worried
you aught to casst your gaze on another beaugh
he sound unavailable to you
2006-11-09 03:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋