My bf and I are long distance.we've been together for almost a year.3 months ago he broke up with me.Since he's kind of weak and non-confrontational,he wouldnt even talk to me over the phone.He just wanted to let it pass.Then I flew up there and we went back together.A month later the same thing happened, i went up there again and we were back together.Now we broke up again,everyone told me to move on. But I wonder if i should give it a final try,this time really talk to him about issues between us. B/c in the past although i flew up there, we didnt talk much. we just hang out and hope things will be better. So this time if i'm gonna do it i'll focus on talking. Now he doesnt pick up his phone so the only way for us to communicate is for me to go there.I still think there's a chance b/c mybf said it's iffy it could go either way 3 days ago and he's wishy-washy he always changes his mind.but i'm afraid he'll think i'm chasing him again and lose interests.What should I do to gethim back?
2006-11-09 03:12:17 · 9 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No..Has he ever come to visit you? You can't force someone to be with you.. It sounds like he is trying to get rid of you ... Your wasting your time and money going after a guy that keeps breaking up with you... Stop calling him and let him come to you if he wants to work things out...He needs to prove himself to you... If he doesn't contact you then you'll know you never mattered to him in the first place..
2006-11-09 04:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd find a new boy friend, he's not interested... what's happening is that he has found new friends, and you know how guys listen to their friends when they are single... they are telling him stuff like why would you want to have a relationship with someone who is so far away, when you could have a relationship with someone you could see everyday... that is what he is listening to... then, when he hears from you, he wants you too... I personally would not waste my money on another trip. Just send him a letter tellinghim it's over... then wait and see if you hear from him for a couple of days, and move on if you don't hear from him...
2006-11-09 11:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so hard up like you need him, sounds like he has other g/f 's i wouldnt be chasing him LOVE is like a 2 way street you love & prove to him by going out there & he should be doing the same........that way while you 2 are on the street of love you will both be headed the same way.........and if there is no communication hang it up & really move on, communication just isnt done in person when your in a long distance relationship...feel sorry 4 ya gl
2006-11-09 11:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are spoing that boyfriend of yours... You ought to have a serious talk about your relationship. Its the 3rd time you would be chasing him. Why always take the move...In a relationship there are two way processess- give and take,,, what you are doing is always give and give.... Move on alone Give yourself a chance to find someone worth loving...
2006-11-09 11:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon WOMAN. WAKE UP. He's been gone since the first breakup. YOU ARE NOT BF & GF. You are his booty call.
Find someone near you and get over him. Good Luck
2006-11-09 11:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the i don't care card. if he's really into you he will call you first he may be doing this for attention good luck :) leave him a message that you deserve better then this if he decideds he wants to act better then this that he knows your number and leave it at that
2006-11-09 11:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Move on. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, not someone you have to convince. He's not worth it.
2006-11-09 11:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with him or if you like let him come to you
2006-11-09 11:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Terry G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, Just be friends..... It's a waste of time...
2006-11-09 11:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by ximxca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋