I have a friend that is a relationship with a guy that lives down in Texas, But she lives in NC. But there is a guy here in NC that likes her and she kinda likes him to. But she loves the guy in Texas to much to break up with him and they are planning on gettin married when theitr out of high school. But the guy in NC trys to hang out with her as much as possible to see if she would change her mind. But my problem is that I like that guy. She said it was ok if I went for it, But i'm not sure if she is telling me the truth. So what should I do? Should I go for it or should I just look for someone else?
2006-11-09 03:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by dolphin2414 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also flirts with me everytime we are hanging alone or with one of my friends, Does that mean he likes me or he just one of those guys that flirts?
2006-11-09 03:15:02 · update #1
Hey listen to yourself. Is this the confusion you need. Let your friend solve her own problems and your should find another guy and leave the triangle. It could become the Bermuda triangle and guess who will suffer?
2006-11-09 03:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mark V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why would she let you go after "her man" if she really did want him. She'd wave you off. But it him hanging out with her, waiting like a dog for a bone fron his "Ice Princess". Seems he likes 'em hard to get, so think about that before you throw yourself at him. You are asking for a man to wipe his feet on you if you are willing to look the other way while he pants like a puppy for her attentions, hoping to win her over from Mr. Texas. And what is her relationship with Mr. Texas takes a turn? Will she re-evaluate her relationship with Mr. MC? Drama Rama......no you shouldn't! Find someone less complicated!
2006-11-09 11:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question. i for one believe that people should not date anyone that is linked what-so-ever to their friends. however, i do believe that if this person is your one true love (in your case, you don't know yet), then you should hook up with him. and if she is really your friend, she'd be happy that you are happy.
since you are still in high school, you wouldn't know if this is your one true love, then i'd suggest taking it slow and just befriend him. you know deep inside even though she says that it's ok for you to date the guy, it isn't.
if things don't work out with her and texas boy, she'd get back with the guy at north carolina. it will be a mess.
2006-11-09 11:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I would say put yourself in her position, If she asked the exact same question and you knew you kinda of liked that person but was in another relationship, how would you feel(Honestly). What ever you answer is, that should answer your question.
2006-11-09 11:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by justagirl2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - sounds like this guy is after something he wont get.... but that doesnt mean that even if he said he wanted you that his heart is in it fully. You wanna find some one who wants you as his number 1.... not 2nds....
2006-11-09 11:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend, told you that it would be okay, then you go for it. Say to her I hope that you mean it. because your friendship means so much to me. I am going to see if he is attracted to me.I hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-09 11:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take something else
2006-11-09 11:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Terry G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋