In a man's point of view. Would you skip on dating someone you like if that person didn't want to have kids or get married?
2006-11-09 03:08:03 · 16 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question! I think it depends on how old you are. If you're pushing 40, you may not have much time to spend hanging around. If you are very young, you might want thechance to have a good experience with an attractive man for a while before seriously looking.
Main thing is, don't make the mistake of thinking that you could change the man - because that hardly ever happens.
If you really like him/have the hots for him, you probably woyldn't be asking this!!
Good luck.
2006-11-09 03:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys don't want to get married or have kids, where if thats what they want there are females out there that want that as well, but most of the people in world want to be with someone for ever and have children and grow old together and carrying on the legend of there name. If the person your with does or doesn't and depends if you do or don't but if one wants and the other doesn't then I would keep looking for that one that wants what I want, cause the one who does want will try to convience the one who doesn't want, I hope that makes sense.
2006-11-09 11:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I first met, I told him I didn't want children. (I was 23 years old at the time and he was 34). He nearly ended the relationship because he has always wanted children. Something made him give me a chance anyways and marry me. And now that I am older (29) I have decided that I would like a child too so we are currently trying to conceive.
2006-11-09 11:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something out of a relationship and the person you are with cannot give it to you - you either have to move on and find what you want with someone else, or stay with the person and let go of those things. It's your call.
2006-11-09 11:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person does not want the same things as you in a relationship, then it is doomed from the beginning. Most people think that they can eventually change the person's mind, but that never works.
2006-11-09 11:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS a guy, if I told my old lady I didnt want kids until later I mean it! Then again, she could convince me with her sex powers. But i'm far from that, cause I'm young...its up to you...cause if kids make you happy then youre going to be missing that for many years..maybe get a doggie to compensate for the lack of kids until u can have sum.
2006-11-09 11:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by whenrainbowscry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm on the other end of the spectrum. I am older and I don't want kids at my age (54). Don't have the patience to raise kids any longer.
2006-11-09 11:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women want to experience kids.
So I'd say for most women yes, they would definitely skip on dating someone like that.
Now when you RAISED Your kids, that's a different story.
2006-11-09 11:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit down and talk to this person first to see what they want. if they don't want kids and to be married but you do my suggestion is to keep searching until you find that special some one who shares in your interest of kids and marriage.
2006-11-09 11:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes, i would like to have kids before I'm 33 ,if a potential parter is not interested in kids, i would have to pass them by.
2006-11-09 11:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋