I'm tired of meeting these cliched characatures of a man who think all a woman wants from him is his cock and his cash. I'm looking honesty, loyalty, laughter, and someone who's interested in being my best friend as well as my greatest lover. Nice guys this is your chance to represent.
2006-11-09 03:03:53 · 20 answers · asked by Cady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's been my experience that once you (ladies) meet us/me, we become boring because we are attentive and respectful and don't bring drama into the picture. I am wondering where all the girls who REALLY want a great guy are.
2006-11-09 03:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You say that nice is what you want. But history shows that the nice guy most often does not end up with the girl.
What you need is just a man that is open and honest. And you should be the same. Leave all the head games and dating ploys behind and be real with your date.
Perhaps you start out as being friends and see how the relationship develops.
2006-11-09 03:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of truly nice guys out there. Problem is most girls don't want to date nice guys. Oh they think that somewhere down the line the will want to settle down and then want a genuinely nice, conservative, honest, dependable man to marry. Problem is when they find one and actually do marry them it is not long and they are bored out of their minds. Too much goodness so to speak.
So the problem is not so much the lack of nice guys as it is we are so easily overlooked by women wanting to have fun or at least entertained.
I am that nice guy you think you want. I am very dependable, work hard, honest and love women. I was married to a woman for 37 years that kept asking me is this all there is? I had no idea what she was talking about. Two children and grandchildren and a good life. What more is there? Of course I would have liked more sex but I lived with that.
Finally she found one of those really good guys and I divorced her. It hadn't been the first time. I am married again and she lives alone. Mr. Wonderful turned out to be not wonderful at all. He wouldn't leave his current wife.
Be very sure of what you ask for. What a truly good guy is does not match up with most woman's expectation. And I doubt they really exist.
My perception of what most women want follows:
Dependable, honest, a one woman man, works hard, plays hard, loves women, would never think of cheating on the woman he loves, funny, bold, unpredictable and overall outrageous.
Good luck. I hope you find him.
2006-11-09 03:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm representing for the nice dudes. Right here. I'm a commitment man who appreciates friendship, I like making people laugh. And I just want a woman to be affectionate with, spend my time with, you know? I've got a lot of love to give and I'd like to think I'm a nice guy. We're out there, just shy. In my case, too shy to actually meet someone. lol. And a lot of bad dudes are out there saying they're sincere and love Julia Roberts movies so it's hard to tell anymore.
2006-11-09 03:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nice guy, ofcourse there is nice guys in the world.
Good luck, and don't be paranoid. Treat people the way you want to be treated, if you think a guy only wants certain things from you, chances are after he gets them, he will probably leave because he will know something is awkward.
2006-11-09 03:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a nice guy but a picky nice guy. I just wan a nice lady who has an education and is beautiful, creative, loyal, and sexy as hell. I cant seem to find a woman like this anywhere that wants me. MOST HAVE JUST BEEN MEAN
2006-11-11 16:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sad Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-09 03:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an nice guy ..but like someone else mentioned, women say they want one and always just go for the jerk because nice guys are boring..
2006-11-09 03:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 13:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nice guys out there but few nice women.
2006-11-09 03:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ratzo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋