After 6 mos, she told me she needed some time for herself which I have given her, but the other night I couldn't take it and cracked. I sent her a text just totally spilling my guts, enought that she stayed home from work that day. She came over tonight. Things felt ambiguous when she left. How long would you wait to ask what I can expect as far as we go? Should I even ask or just see how things unfold? I don't want to pressure a decision but I deserve to know if she is even thinking about it.
2006-11-09 03:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're right about having the right to know if she's considering it. I also think that you might mess things up if you pressure her too much. Atleast give her a day or two before you start pressing the issue again. Hopefully within those 48 hours she will get back to you. When you do call her, if she doesn't call you, try to keep it casual and let her have some sort of oppurtunity to tell you what she thinks before you flat out ask.
2006-11-09 03:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definetly need to know, be honest with her! Tell her exactly how you feel in detail because asking will get you to Rome! That way it may begin a more sincere realtionship between you all or just break it off again completly...
You don't deserve to be hanging there for answers in that time you could find a really wonderful women!!!
2006-11-09 03:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice
2006-11-09 03:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you spilled your guts out on a text message? wow, usually takes me three pages on microsoft word to do that!!! "Need some time for myself" really means "need time where you arent around." You are way to hung up and need to move on, she has...
2006-11-09 11:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient; anything worth having is worth the wait!
2006-11-09 03:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve to know if there's even hope. If she says yes...don't pressure her, just let it wait.
2006-11-09 03:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm ask her on a date
2006-11-09 03:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Precious J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Risk, No Gain! Ask her... what do you have to loose?
2006-11-09 03:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it one more try - then let it go - sometimes silence on your part will make her notice you more.
2006-11-09 03:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋