do men have to worry more when in a realtionship that involves an attractive female rather than a plain jane. is it harder for men to deal with the attention that the women recieves from people is it the reason why men sometimes settle for less aside from a great personality
2006-11-09 02:56:28 · 17 answers · asked by alizenena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don'
t find that to be a problem at all. If anything it is the opposite. (You can look but she is mine!) However there is much more to long term attraction than beauty. Beautify is nice but not the major consideration.
2006-11-09 03:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! But, somebody has to. I'm 40 years old and not too bad looking. The first woman I dated after my divorce 2 years ago was 7 years older than me. She was attractive, and everything was good but she had a hard time with me owning a bar and having pretty young girls around all the time. She was constantly giving me and them looks and it upset her a lot. We broke up after a year. About 4 months ago I meet this young 19 year old girl through a mutual friend. I am now on the other side of the coin. She is gorges and I'm always checking on her and It drives me nuts all the bays that talk to her. She does make me happy in many ways and we have a great relationship but, it still drives me nuts some times. The secret is she reassures me often that she loves me and wants no one else, and I have found that she is somewhat insecure and wants the same reassurance from me. I say to all the attractive people out there. I you want to stay in your relationship you have to be open and free with the compliments and reassurance.
2006-11-09 11:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by TMAC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A confident man, does not worry about attention that his attractive mate receives from others, also there is no such thing as plain Jane, all women are unique and beautiful...
2006-11-09 11:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think sometimes - some men are insecure and cannot handle other guys looking/talking to their girl & fear the attractive girl will either cheat on them or break their heart - other guys love the hottest chick - love arm candy regardless of personality - a secure guy will go for the attractive girl with the great personality.
2006-11-09 11:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm good question
although i feed off the attention that other men give to my lady i dont like it when it gets to her head
but eitherway every woman get s lots of attention from men alll over
but the plain jane i think is more likely to cheat cuz she wouldnt be as picky as the pretty but then again i could be wrong
2006-11-09 11:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think twice, because I get nervous with very attractive women. And I think I would find myself doing anything for her, for fear of losing her. And yes it would be hard to deal with the attention she gets, because everyone would want her, and I know I would be paranoid to leave her alone lol.
2006-11-09 11:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The looks are only half of the deal, if her personality matches her looks. (meaning she's attractive and has a great personality) then men won't hesitate. If she's attractive, but a beeyatch, then we won't want a relationship.
2006-11-09 11:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't, they just think about it after they get involved..then they get dumped or bored they go.."ooo..looks are not important, whats important is the beauty inside"..but then they see another hot chick and just cant help themselves but get involved again..and the cycle goes on and on..
2006-11-09 11:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Stardust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first he will jump in without question. It is later if the personalities don't mesh. It doesn't matter how attractive you are. If I can't stand you then it's not worth my time.
2006-11-09 10:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by needhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't women think twice about asking extremely egotistical, self centered questions?
2006-11-09 11:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋