well i ve known this guy for bout a 2 months as friends n we havent dated or ne thing but i like him a lot we were pretty close to hooking up last time we hung out but i stopped it so now were hanging out at his house alone dis weekend do u think i should hook up wit him???
2006-11-09 02:52:00 · 14 answers · asked by hunny_bunn101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong place to ask honey. But I'll help you as much as I can. I think that hooking up can be really fun, as long as your heart doesn't get broken. If you don't think there is any chance of that then go and have fun. Make sure you're just comfortable with being with him and you want to. Last time might have been an indication that you do't want to. Be safe if you do and just have a good time. Don't let things get out of hand or do something that you don't want to.
2006-11-09 02:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends, really- do you want him as a boyfriend, or just a "friend with benefits?" Whichever you want, make sure he wants the same thing too first, so nobody gets hurt or misunderstood.
Second, if either of you already are in relationships, the answer is, of course, no. Cheating is never the right thing to do. However, if you're both single, why not? Whether you're in it just for fun or to start a relationship, it's always nice to be friends first. Just make sure you know what you both want out of the situation before doing anything.
2006-11-09 03:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Give the guy a chance! It is YOUR DECISION to make, and you can only learn from yourself what it leads to. You are in charge, and he WILL BE DELIGHTED!
Does he value you? What will he do for you, and what can you do for him? If both will benefit by this relationship, it will be BETTER for BOTH OF YOU!!! If he is a selfish guy though, that is a red flag, and you want to stay away. Is he building your trust, or playing hard to get, or desparate? These are things to be aware of. Oh, and ONE GOOD PIECE OF ADVICE: What do YOUR PARENTS think of him? Usually Parents are very good judges of character, and they can READ PEOPLE very well (afterall, they have the experience).
The ONLY thing you learn about relationships, is by being in them. Be involved. Learn and love. Live and forgive. God is good! He gave us the ABILITY to choose! Be blessed!
2006-11-09 03:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the very fact that you are asking this question, points that you do seem interested in hooking up. So go ahead and do it. Have fun in life. Enjoy!!!
2006-11-09 03:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by amkazmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you've been seeing him for a lengthy time period then you have already hooked your self up with him. Are you meaning in a sexual way? if so then the right thanks to "hook up" with him will be when you walk down the aisle and say "I do"... Get married first..
2016-11-28 23:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was looking to answer a Yahoo! Answers question and wound up here answering a SINGLES AND DATING question...
Yes go have a great time!!! if you are really over 18...
2006-11-09 02:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are in doubt DON'T ... what's stopping you the last time? It's your choice but if i were you I'll follow my intuition and feelings ... Good Luck and have Fun!
2006-11-09 03:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by lilac baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him i don't see why not but is it going to cause you all not to be friends if it don't work out with dating
2006-11-09 02:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by carebearblue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it feels right to both of you then go for it. Good luck.
2006-11-09 02:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you are going to do whatever you want, regardless of what n e one says..just be safe
2006-11-09 02:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by ekenny513 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋